1. Download the Automatic Port Forwarder from http://www.mediafire.com/?gwwwpg4jgh6uofa
2. In the Checklist place, click update the router list.
3. Click continue and wait.
4. Then, click Select you Router info and then find your router and double click on it.
5. Now click Choose Which ports to forward.
6. Click the "Add Custom" tab.
7. Make a name for it. I put "MineCraft". Then make sure the next thing is set to TCP.
8. For the "Start Port" and "End Port" type 25565.
9. Click "Add"
10. When your done, click "Update Router".
11. You might have to enter credentials to continue. Google it.
12. When your done, click "Test that Now ports work" and click begin.
13. Enter "25565" without quotes.
14. If you did all the steps above correctly, then it should say in the black and green box, "success".
15. To get your friends on the server, simply open you Bukkit Operator Panel and go to "Connection Info" and tell them the IP that is in the white box.