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I am, as some may say, a hater sometimes. I express my opinion sometimes exaggerating it in the purpose of sarcasm and irony, sometimes for good.
But some people don't get it.
Some wise man said once "sarcasm is a shield from stupidity for intelligent". Well, that's it, you heard it.
The problem with today's PMC is that everyone hates haters, and by hating them they become haters.
It's spreading all across the site.
I say something like "this kind of skins are bad". And what? A wave of hate on me! Seriously, this is not like I'm hating you. I am making you AWARE that this kind of skins is bad. And an angel comes telling me that I should let people do what they want and should not post such comments. Well, here it goes, let me post such comments! Because that's what I like! Letting other people know what I think! And yes, I may seem to be a hater sometimes. Because, what if I'm wrong? What if community actually thinks that these skins are good? And I told a young ambitious skinner that these are bad and he stopped making them?
Yes, you have a point here. That's why we all have to express our opinions.
There are though, pure-blood haters, who do it just for the purpose of hating. But you can't put us all in one bag. That's judging, prejudice, stereotyping. And then I will be hating you for that.
That's a loop, isn't it?
Yes, and, now the point of this blog. If you really think someone is hating - try to calmly explain things to him/her.
He answers, still hating with no logical reason. If so - LEAVE IT. Don't answer at all.
If he/she makes a good point somewhere, but it's not enough to prove one's statement, then this is someone's point of view. You shouldn't really change that. You have yours, he/she has his/her.
And if your and his statements are both true, but different, this is one's opinion. You should respect it, and be thankful that someone kindly shares it. Appreciate it.
And remember, if you "hate" something remember to post some constructive feedback on how to make something better!
Thank you for reading that. I really do. I am a hater sometimes(but well mannered one), and I am thankful to you for reading this. Especially if you're not going to hate it now.
I am, as some may say, a hater sometimes. I express my opinion sometimes exaggerating it in the purpose of sarcasm and irony, sometimes for good.
But some people don't get it.
Some wise man said once "sarcasm is a shield from stupidity for intelligent". Well, that's it, you heard it.
The problem with today's PMC is that everyone hates haters, and by hating them they become haters.
It's spreading all across the site.
I say something like "this kind of skins are bad". And what? A wave of hate on me! Seriously, this is not like I'm hating you. I am making you AWARE that this kind of skins is bad. And an angel comes telling me that I should let people do what they want and should not post such comments. Well, here it goes, let me post such comments! Because that's what I like! Letting other people know what I think! And yes, I may seem to be a hater sometimes. Because, what if I'm wrong? What if community actually thinks that these skins are good? And I told a young ambitious skinner that these are bad and he stopped making them?
Yes, you have a point here. That's why we all have to express our opinions.
There are though, pure-blood haters, who do it just for the purpose of hating. But you can't put us all in one bag. That's judging, prejudice, stereotyping. And then I will be hating you for that.
That's a loop, isn't it?
Yes, and, now the point of this blog. If you really think someone is hating - try to calmly explain things to him/her.
He answers, still hating with no logical reason. If so - LEAVE IT. Don't answer at all.
If he/she makes a good point somewhere, but it's not enough to prove one's statement, then this is someone's point of view. You shouldn't really change that. You have yours, he/she has his/her.
And if your and his statements are both true, but different, this is one's opinion. You should respect it, and be thankful that someone kindly shares it. Appreciate it.
And remember, if you "hate" something remember to post some constructive feedback on how to make something better!
Thank you for reading that. I really do. I am a hater sometimes(but well mannered one), and I am thankful to you for reading this. Especially if you're not going to hate it now.
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"That's a loop, isn't it?"