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by RemakeUK » 7/20/2012

I have had a crush on a girl in my class for quite a while now and i really like her. I got my friend to ask her out for me She said" i feel tight on him but no" She didnt know i liked her until yesterday and i was thinking should i ask her my self if not what could i do?
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by cheesesnacks » 7/20/2012

Well I think Getting close to her is the best way like be nice and talk to her
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by RemakeUK » 7/20/2012

Jmaz103 wrote:I agree with ViperHead. Why would you ask this on pmc????

"Everything Else" Anything else on your mind except from "minecraft" "
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by synysterplague » 7/20/2012

Usually I would agree with Viper, but I'm to nice for my own good. XD Be direct about it, mate! Girls love confidence like that. Just go up to her and say that you like her a lot, and decided it would be better to ask in person, and then, well, ask her! Trust me, I did the same thing. I've been in a relationship now for 4 years. It works. :D
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by ninja246810 » 7/20/2012

Dont listen to them! I know how it feels, I've had a crush before and I managed to be her boy friend. Go to her and say that you love her and that you love her than anything in the entire world and that she is a continuing source of inspiration.

Basically tell her your feelings about her
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by ImNotToasted » 7/20/2012

Ask her and if she says no then write her a song i don't know.
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by Seska Rotan » 7/20/2012

RemakeUK wrote:I have had a crush on a girl in my class for quite a while now and i really like her. I got my friend to ask her out for me She said" i feel tight on him but no" She didnt know i liked her until yesterday and i was thinking should i ask her my self if not what could i do?


Firstly, this IS the 'Everything Else' section, so you are well within your rights to post it here. :)

Secondly, the thing with Yahoo answers is that there are a LOT of dedicated trolls who'll go out of their way to mock you or provide you with bad advice, so it's never my first point of call.

Well, your first mistake was getting someone else to ask her. Most girls like confident guys, and even telling her yourself shows to her that you've got the bravery and confidence to ask her. She might have said no for a number of reasons.
1) She might like someone else. It's tough when this happens, but if you like her, you want her to be happy, right? So if she's happy liking some other guy, I'd leave it be.
2) She might think of you as 'a friend'. This happens a lot, and means you're in the friendzone. It's a tough situation, but not impossible. :)
3) Age. If you're young (I'm thinking 13/14) then relationships might not really be at the top of her priorities right now. I'd wait a while.

Tip: Get to know her more. Spend more time with her. Make her laugh, and have fun, but don't be too clingy. You never know, she might change her mind. :)

But remember, if it's clear that nothing is going to happen between you and het, don't be afraid to let it go. There are plenty more fish in the sea. :) Good luck.
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by Animatrix » 7/20/2012

The worst that could happen if you ask is getting rejected, and even then most girls still want to stay friends with you. Better that than not asking and spending your days wondering about what could have happened if you two went out...
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by ipodcreed » 7/20/2012

Be confident
Be yourself
Have the courage to ask her
Three rules to follow (YOU DON'T HAVE TO FOLLOW THEM)
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by creeperCarole » 7/20/2012

Dear lvl 1 members who are telling Remake not to post this question here:

"shut up."

This has been a public service announcement from your friendly neighbourhood moderator.

Everyone else, carry on.
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by ImNotToasted » 7/20/2012

But if she says yes then be ready.Becuse 2 of my friends are like scared of their girlfriends
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by synysterplague » 7/20/2012

creeperCarole wrote:Dear lvl 1 members who are telling Remake not to post this question here:

"shut up."

This has been a public service announcement from your friendly neighbourhood moderator.

Everyone else, carry on.


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