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Ladies, this is important ~ love yourself ((face reveal

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Alright, so I know a lot of us girls struggle to find ourselves "beautiful" and to love ourselves for who we are. I felt like this was a very important subject to cover, especially for teenage girls.


As I am a teenager right now, I'm always comparing myself to other girls, who may seem prettier than I am, have a prettier body than I do, clearer skin, more popularity. I am sure a lot of you out there are going through the same thing as I am, and I understand that it may be hard to love yourself, especially when extremely beautiful women make videos about how important it is to love themselves. We, girls who find themselves "ugly" look to these women and you know, they make it seem so easy, and every single day I try, I try so hard to love myself, to look in the mirror when I wake up and tell myself I'm beautiful, to know I'm beautiful. But, I simply can't. I see an ugly girl, with an okay body, with a big nose, and just an ugly face in general. Some days I'll feel myself, I'll feel somewhat beautiful. Others, especially when I have a big pimple on my face I'll feel ugly and basically want to hide myself from everyone.

In school I'm literally always comparing myself to the pretty girls, the popular girls. I'm very insecure about my nose, especially on those days where I don't feel myself. I just feel like I don't fit the standards of being a girl. The society's image of a girl. Slim noses, big eyes, long eyelashes, big lips, blue and/or green eyes. Now a days, with all of our social medias and all of these beautiful women and models in our feeds, we're comparing ourselves even more to images we see. Whether or not, these images can ruin someone's self esteem so badly. Girls tell me that I'm "pretty", "beautiful", my nose if just fine, things such as that, and I feel like I've just been so caught up in my imperfections and my looks for so many years, it means nothing more to me than lies.

As I'm growing more and more into a woman, I myself have noticed how important it is to
love yourself for who you are and what you look like. Life is short and ladies, I just want you to know you're beautiful inside and out, gorgeous, a queen, a living angel, a sexy model, iconic, and so so SO much more. Words cannot express how beautiful each and every one of us women are. I cannot stress enough how beautiful ALL of you are. You all need to understand that each one of us is different. We are different in looks and personality. Please, do NOT compare yourself to other girls. Whether you think so or not, those girls you're comparing yourself to are probably comparing themselves to you and/or the many other girls out there. There are no standards for women, there's no certain image we're supposed to look like. Now, society imagines us women as this one image, this skinny, slim, figure. No. We are all different sizes, shapes, we all have different looks, all of us. We are not supposed to look this one certain image that society imagines us as. Don't believe society. Fight against society standards, because we are much more beautiful than society standards. There is not one certain type of beautiful. Beautiful is not a standard, or a rank. No matter your race, nationality, looks, body type, we are all beautiful. God created each and every one of us in his image, a beautiful image, where everything is beautiful. That girl you're comparing yourself may seem "perfect" to you, but keep in mind no one is perfect. Stop comparing yourself. There's nothing to compare. We were all made differently . Don't get yourself so caught up in your looks, because you are beautiful every single freaking day. Whether you're staying in bed all day with messy hair and your eye bags showing through, you are BEAUTIFUL. You may always have your insecurities, but learn to work your insecurities. Learn to love them. Be grateful. Your nose is beautiful, your eyes are beautiful, your body is beautiful, your hair is beautiful, your lips are beautiful, your forehead is beautiful, your cheeks are beautiful, your face shape is beautiful. There's no certain image of beautiful.

Us girls are always so caught up in our looks we forget how precious life is, and the short time we have on this planet. Enjoy yourself, enjoy every single day of your life. Look in that mirror and see a beautiful girl, and strong independent woman, a woman who doesn't need a boy in her life. Look at that mirror and see you.


To those who took their time to read this long blog, thank you. I hope this helped some of you girls out there to love yourself.

Face reveal !!



Also, first blog :)



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  • CHorse
  • Level 35
  • Artisan Fish
  • October 1, 2018, 11:29 am
This is nice. I honestly think that making comparisons like that is somewhat detrimental, hopefully kids can stop doing that. I feel like people just need to figure out that most everyone is beautiful in some way, even if you're not physically attractive some people still make up for it with their personality. And, if it means anything, I don't see anything wrong with your nose.
Yes, I feel the same as well.
And, thank you
  • CHorse
  • Level 35
  • Artisan Fish
  • October 1, 2018, 2:14 pm
No problem! And uhh, if ye ever dare feel insecure ever again I will be forced to compliment ye again.
  • Bleyd
  • Level 15
  • Journeyman Pirate
  • October 1, 2018, 4:06 am
Now make one for guys
Haha, sure thing.

It just might not be all that since I'm a girl and I don't really know what guys go through? But, I'm sure it's somewhat a like.
  • Inspirinq
  • Level 43
  • Master Sweetheart
  • September 27, 2018, 6:59 pm
Such a beautifully written blog. :) I struggle with this every day. I find myself looking in that mirror and seeing my extremely round face, big nose, pimples, curly brown hair, and I think “ugly.” Every girl should see this post because it was honestly very moving. <3

And of course you are gorgeous yourself :)
Thank you so much!

I really hoped this helped you <3

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