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Minecraft Dating? [Collaboration with Sissy ~ Second Part!]

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Aquatta avatar Aquatta
Level 56 : Grandmaster Dragonborn
Recently, the topic of "minecraft dating" has been floating around. So I thought, "WHY NOT?" So let's dive right in, shall we?
If you want to read the first half of this blog, go here!
Now, continuing off of what is on Sissy's blog, here are some more DO's and DON'TS.

Do's and Don'ts

If someone keeps shifting you in Minecraft (like, on you),

DO: Walk away and/or tell them to stop. DON'T: Shift back or type anything perverted.

If someone asks you out and you say no, and they try bribing you like: "LOL PLZ I WILL


DO: Say no. DON'T: Take the diamonds. (It's like signing your soul to the devil.)

If someone yells out, "Anyone need a bf/gf? Go to spawn,"

DO: Stay where you are. DON'T: Go to spawn.

If you think you need some advice on how to get people to stop, you can message Aquatta or Sissy. We'll help you to the best of our abilities! Just title the message something similar to "Minecraft Dating Problem", and we'll read it as soon as we can and we'll try to come up with a solution. :)

Sissy and I know quite a bit about MineCraft dating, from a girl's opinion, anyways, because we've been on the inside AND on the outside of it. So...

StOrY TiMe!

Sissy's StOrY

When I was first introduced to Minecraft, it confused me a lot. So when I went on servers, I would usually say, "Um, I'm a girl, and I need help." It kind of worked out, because I got a lot stuff, so it helped a lot, although it pretty much changed when I went on a purely survival server.

I was doing what I normally do and I was asked "Hey, do you have a boyfriend." I was a little annoyed by the question because, 1. No, I didn't and 2. It was personal, and 3. I was like 10. However, I didn't really get taken back by the question, and I answered "No, why," because what 10 year old has a boyfriend, and why are you asking me this, like seriously. Realizing the gravity of the situation seconds later, it was a little too late. The dude started jumping up and shifting. Being only 10 years old, I was officially creeped out. I mentally noted never to say no to having a boyfriend on the internet.

(Look at the second Do's and Don'ts here.)

Aquatta's StOrY
So this one guy, let's call him Guy 1... Was always bothering my friend. He kept stalking her, and it was really creepy. He had her Skype and stuff, and would talk with her all night. She was too nice to say no, *cough* even though she should have *cough* <3 He said some pretty gross things. Some of those things still haunt me. Anyways, he started calling my friend his personal wh*re and called her a sl*ut and stuff. He had a sign that he wrote was his naked picture of my friend. It was pretty creepy, especially since I found out later that he was lying about his age. So finally, my friend and I went on another server, and he was there also. I was getting pretty tired of it because he was soo terrible and was such a creep. My friend was always creeped out and didn't know what to do, because she didn't want to seem mean. She told him to stop a bunch of times. So on this new server, he continued to bother my friend. I asked him what it would take to get him to stop, and he said I had to be his girlfriend. (Oh god) I said I'd be his girlfriend for a day, and he agreed. He stopped bothering my friend... But that day was HORRIBLE. I am slightly scarred. He got banned a couple days later for doing who knows what. Either way, I think minecraft dating is really creepy. Especially because there are those rare few who go waaay too far, like trying to find out where you live (Guy 1 did this). But I'm glad I made that AWFUL deal with him... Because he left my friend alone. :)

Avelynne's StOrY

My first encounter with MC dating was when a guy started to creep me out. His entire personality was just... weird. He was always creepy and not very fun to hang out with, despite his beliefs. His jokes and comments may have been funny in his eyes, but certainly not in mine. He was being very suggestive most of the time and I honestly just wanted him to go away. It took a while for that to happen. (Guy 1) But let's not get into that...
The next person that I had an experience with involving dating on Minecraft was - let's call him - Guy 2. Guy 2 technically never asked me out to begin with, but he offered me a diamond on Minecraft as a ring, and hey, who was I not to accept a diamond on Minecraft?! I later found out that he hadn't actually even gotten the diamond, it was my friend. He just asked for it and then gave it to me. xP It doesn't matter, though, because I really shouldn't have ever accepted since he later on told me that I was his second choice. -_- Kind of dumb of me; my friend was his first choice. Oh well! So, my friend and I created an entire map on her server for the wedding, designing an entire thing for it! We never did get to have our wedding, though, because the day/time was never scheduled since the server that we were using to contact everyone on -- my favorite server -- shut down. :( And that was the end of my first REAL Minecraft relationship.

Sissy's Nephew's StOrY
My nephew loved to play minecraft with my account. Not that much harm done. Until he went on his avoid-all-girls spree. He would ask people if they were girls, because he wanted to avoid all of the girls. One girl specifically, was offended by this. She was, let's call her Girl 1. She LOVED attention from ALL the boys, no matter if they were awkward or sweet. My nephew went to spawn because he heard something about a drop party, when Girl 1 caught sight of him and she went to flirt. My Nephew was TERRIFIED. _Supper was flirting her butt off, when a moderator came by and screamed at her. Not for flirting with players, but for cheating on him. Long story short, my nephew was banned for "FLIRTING WITH MY GIRL!"

Sissy's Brother's StOrY
My brother would go on this one server quite often, and I never really understood why. He was obsessed with it. If I asked to get on it he would shout at me until one of the neighbors told us to shut up. So one day he told me what it was. He was getting kicks off some girls. So I decided to make him pay. I told the girls on the server to mess with him. Sadly one of the girls took this to heart and eventually harassed him off the server. He still got what he needed.<3

Sissy's Nephew's Second StOrY

My nephew used to have his own account, he delted it after one fateful day, a girl walked into his little Minecraft life. His IGN was similar to ketchup, apparently this girl was obsessed with ketchup, so she was "turned on" by his IGN. She would follow him around and leave him little signs like "You're amazing," or, "Marry me? xoxoxoxoxoox," My nephew really liked the notes she left, because they were sweet, but he didn't even KNOW her. As time passed she was making him uncomfortable, because overtime those sweet little signs became nasty love notes. Eventually my nephew demanded she show herself. Turns out the she, was a he, the ENTIRE time.

NOTE: Sissy and I made this blog to tell you our thoughts and opinions on it. We are not trying to start a flame war. Both genders do it, we're not trying to be sexist. Thank you!

NOTE: The reason I have not listed names is because naming members or even alluding to them is classed as blacklisting and is not allowed on PMC.

If you liked the blog, it'd mean a TON to me if you'd diamond it or comment! Thanks!!!

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08/05/2014 4:31 pm
Level 41 : Master Sweetheart
Wondrous avatar
My personal opinion on this is, its your decision if you want to Online date, But come on, if Youre young DONT DO IT. I have some personal friends that met online and Are Married now with 3 adopted russian children. however they are adults and they are responsible enough to know what they were getting into. There are lots of desperate boys out there but girls, Come on. Its not worth it. Minecraft relationships, Likely wont work out.
07/24/2014 1:31 pm
Level 1 : New Network
SugarBunni avatar
i cnt stand the fact that people date IN MINECRAFT!!! I mean really guys:
1. its a game!! ot a dating website
2. the he/she could be a 65 year old man/woman
3.Its kinda dumb because you dont know anything about them
4. its a waste of time
Now thats just wat i think i dont rlly know if some people would agree with most of them but still...guys please stop dating in minecraft..Yea Real life is fine...but a game? the world has gone crazy!!!!!!
07/22/2014 8:37 am
Level 35 : Artisan Unicorn
Jamie1994 avatar
I have rp dated but it wasnot serious like not kissing you every minute and such I was good friends with everyone I rped with so it wasnt awkward.PLus I am going to date when im 18...
07/22/2014 8:22 am
Level 35 : Artisan Unicorn
Jamie1994 avatar
I feel sorry 4 sissy's nephew's story,I can understand him tsking that sweetly next time that appens say stop being a creepy peeep and leave me alone if you want to date someone go to a dating website (give them the link) and before you get banned, say sorry im just a little girl trying tonprotect myself from creepers :3 if that doesnt work here are some other excuses
1.i have a bf or gf
2.tell staff he or she is bothering you.
3.those dont work say stop or my father will call yours. Never tried it but everyones scared of a girlsfathet
09/02/2013 12:46 pm
Level 38 : Artisan Artist
Chawawaa avatar
Dating in minecraft is something i also do not agree with. Me personally i have been asked out 5 times.
09/01/2013 11:23 pm
Level 8 : Apprentice Explorer
Artificial avatar
I'm on minecraft a lot and i ALWAYS notice the guys that say "anybody need a boyfriend? come to spawn <3" I mean girls do it to but not as often on that server...I make a ton of friends on the server and I'm nice to everyone I meet, but it seems like guys cant get enough of me ._. some of them stalk me around and make rude comments... It really bugs me!! I love the blog and how you made so many stories :)
08/31/2013 10:22 pm
Level 15 : Journeyman Wolf
Colonellooo avatar
I think that Minecraft dating is straight up stupid.
08/30/2013 9:19 am
Level 17 : Journeyman Cowboy
Aranwen avatar
I happen to fall into MC "Dating" quite frequently. I think it's because I usually "lead them on" without meaning to, and I don't realize that they think of me like that until it's too late. Usually after this happens, I tend to stray away from the certain individual because then it starts to get creepy.....

Also, I'd take the diamonds and haul ass outta there.
08/04/2013 6:34 pm
Level 1 : New Miner
Minnie0 avatar
What skin is the girl with red hair and sweater?
08/04/2013 6:53 pm
Level 56 : Grandmaster Dragonborn
Aquatta avatar
It's made by Sissy, but her account was hacked so she's now Sissy_. But here's the link anyways. c:
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