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Does this person like me?

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created 04/29/2013 9:28 am by tehchuanyeow
last reply 04/29/2013 5:19 pm
I have been having my eye on this girl for 3 months now, but the problem is I don't know if she likes me or not, she would stare with small glimpses at me and then look away when I notice, she isn't shy at all and speaks up quite a lot, when we see each other we just pretend to ignore each other but when I start a conversation shell join in and start talking to me. I do act like the kind of guy who is the cool dude kind of guy, she's 12 and I'm 16. I find it awkward to talk to her directly, but when were with others we both can talk together. When she sees me, she completely ignores me, but I can tell she's ignoring me cause I saw her looking at me and she doesn't even sit next to me even if I arrive earlier than her and take a seat, she arrives later, sees me, but sits with her friends far away from me. Why? Does she like me or not?
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04/29/2013 5:19 pm
Level 70 : Legendary Button Pusher
the_soup
thx, i didn't want to explode
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04/29/2013 5:16 pm
Level 55 : Grandmaster Pyro
Supernova666
Well this has been fun. But it has to end now, the level of flame will make the_soup explode. Locked.
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04/29/2013 5:14 pm
Level 43 : Master Pony
SilverKytten
"Pedophile! Pedophile!"

No. Shut up. Obviously, none of you even know what the word pedophile means. Go find a god dang dictionary, and stop spreading your ignorance to the younger members.


Does she like you? Probably, but only because she's just starting to develop feelings for the opposite sex, and you're an older boy. It happens to all girls, and her feelings for you will be gone in a week.

Should you act on these feelings? Sure, if you want to ruin any chance of you guys being friends, in the future. Girls rarely stay friends with any of their ex's, especially when they're that young.

Are you wrong for liking her? Heck no! You're a boy, she's a girl. She's most likely pretty, she seems flirtatious, she possibly likes you. It's NORMAL to have a crush on her. However, you need to realize that the four year age gap, when you're that young, is "bigger" than a four year age gap when she's 18, and you're 22, and that neither of your parents are going to like the idea very much, and will most likely put a stop to it.

You also need to be aware of the laws, where you live. If you're in the USA, it's possible that 16 is considered the legal age of consent, and if you were to do anything remotely sexual with her, it would be illegal. 16 is the age of consent in most states, anymore. There are even a few where the age is 14 and 15. Very few are actually 18.

(And YES, guys, I know this is true. I've done my research on it, unlike the rest of you, who are just going off of what your parents, teachers, and friends tell you.)
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04/29/2013 5:12 pm
Level 17 : Journeyman Crafter
captainhamster
this is what i think you should do.
go up to her, be cool, and tell her how you feel about her. and maybe she'll start talking too you and start hanging out with you more and more.
that is what i think you should do. how do i know? because i have a love as well.
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04/29/2013 5:10 pm
Level 8 : Apprentice Miner
Zachtucker
Your a Fkin Weirdo id kick your ass if you dated a 12 year old , and your probobly a ugly ass nerd ... leave the 12 year pold alone before someone calls the cops on your ass ...
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04/29/2013 4:54 pm
Level 10 : Journeyman Blacksmith
SkyTechKid
Don't date for god's sake if you do. My advice is to be friends with her and stay in touch if you really like her. Maybe when you 20+ you could date her.
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04/29/2013 4:49 pm
Level 28 : Expert Mage
19dshriver
She is to young for you, but when you get older (Like out of collage) you could.
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04/29/2013 2:26 pm
Level 1 : New Dragonborn
botydoo
Bro. To be honest, she is more than 3 years under you. Its considered pedophilism if you try anything.
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04/29/2013 1:00 pm
Level 79 : Legendary Grump
Cipher_Punk
tehchuanyeowshe's 12 and I'm 16.


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04/29/2013 12:57 pm
Level 70 : Legendary Button Pusher
the_soup
Would I advice against a 4 year age gap in a teenage relationship? Yes. The physical and mental changes one goes through in their preteen and teenage years would make that relationship difficult. People always say things like 'oh my parents are 6 years apart!' but they need to realize that there's a BIG difference between a relationship with a, say, 32 year old and a 38 year old and a 12 and 16 year old development-wise. Besides, should the relationship last a few years, what will you do when you go to college? Or when you're in high school and she's still in middle school?
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04/29/2013 12:06 pm
Level 11 : Journeyman Pokemon
Nevin
I'm 21 and my girl friend is 19. We have been together for 5 years and when we first started dating people did not like it at all. So right now it would be better if you did not act on it trust me.

Also when you turn 18 I'm sure it will be against the law.In my state me and my girlfriend were months to close to me getting arrested and deem as a pedo haha.So keep that in mind.
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04/29/2013 4:59 pm
Level 22 : Expert Artist
CyanideVii
I'm guessing that at 19 she has boobs, developed bones and her period? You're 21 and you think a 16/12 relationship is the same as 21/19? She was 15, and I'm assuming at 15 she's menstruating and has boobs. You did not date her when she looked like this.
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04/29/2013 11:48 am
Level 40 : Master Hunter
polaristar
@CyanideVii dude, thats just wrong.
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04/29/2013 11:45 am
Level 22 : Expert Artist
CyanideVii
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04/29/2013 11:32 am
Level 24 : Expert Spelunker
SocialP2
OK. Well first of all..
My friend says your a PEDO/PERV <--IK hes a perv to ....

Also Arent you a bit to old for her. And im kinda like you. ive had an eye on someone for 2 years......Yep...But im too scared that shell say no.Also if my friends know i love someone they get in and always help me out. And trust me. IT DOESNT WORK. just try and figure it out yourself.Also WHAT EVER YOU SAY DONT SAY "Will you go out with me?" IT NEVER WORKS. Ive tried it already with someone else....they slaped me straight away.Also dont say "Do you love me?" They will denie it.

I hope this ^ helped you.

~Social
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04/29/2013 11:16 am
Level 42 : Master Pixel Puncher
gnarmydesmo
too young for you bro
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04/29/2013 10:40 am
Level 36 : Artisan Cake
granolaman457
My father is 10 years older than my mom.
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04/29/2013 10:15 am
Level 13 : Journeyman Miner
xXPecuniamXx
What's jailbait?
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04/29/2013 11:08 am
Level 40 : Master Network
ZaphodX
A 12 year old you have a crush on.

Shpilenok2001My father is 10 years older than my mom.

Your mum isn't a preteen.
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04/29/2013 10:15 am
Level 3 : Apprentice Miner
Penguins727
I think because of the risky 4 year gap it would be too much to try and engage her. Usually I would say that 2 years would be the limit. It is your choice.
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04/29/2013 10:12 am
Level 40 : Master Network
ZaphodX
Jailbait.
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04/29/2013 10:06 am
Level 22 : Expert Artist
CyanideVii
To answer your question - No, she doesn't like you. She's about to start puberty and has noticed the other sex. Kind alike how boys start to notice, except girls notice when they are BABIES.
SHES TWELVE SHES A PRETEEN.
(preteen is 10-12)
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04/29/2013 10:09 am
Level 13 : Journeyman Miner
xXPecuniamXx
Ok wait what your talking about making babies now?
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04/29/2013 10:06 am
Level 25 : Expert Nerd
TRNZ
Little young....
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04/29/2013 10:04 am
Level 22 : Expert Crafter
Neptonic
I think the question is 'Does she like me?'

Not 'How young can I get away with?'.

So, yes.
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04/29/2013 10:06 am
Level 13 : Journeyman Miner
xXPecuniamXx
Reverse Pedophile?
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04/29/2013 10:02 am
Level 36 : Artisan Cake
granolaman457
PMC isn't a dating advise website.
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04/29/2013 10:00 am
Level 37 : Artisan Taco
-Rusty-
1 word

yes
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04/29/2013 10:00 am
Level 38 : Artisan Robot
Monkeyy
If I was you, I would look for someone closer to your age...
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04/29/2013 10:00 am
Level 13 : Journeyman Miner
xXPecuniamXx
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04/29/2013 5:03 pm
Level 35 : Artisan Pixel Painter
BlackHawk185
I'm agreeing with this guy
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04/29/2013 9:58 am
Level 35 : Artisan Steve
BigDaddy
Dude, this isn't really the place to ask this. You'll probably get a bunch of immature answers. I would suggest just letting her decide on her own time.

-BD
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04/29/2013 11:19 am
Level 78 : Legendary Turtle
jar9
are you the same bigdaddy as bigdaddy kimo on ssr?
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04/29/2013 9:58 am
Level 22 : Expert Crafter
Neptonic
^
^*Facepalm*
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04/29/2013 9:56 am
Level 2 : Apprentice Miner
billybojo
^lol what does that have to do with anything?
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04/29/2013 10:00 am
Level 44 : Master Nether Knight
Drakeh
Because she's twelve. I don't know man, it'd be kind of weird. My maximum is at least a year younger than me, not four.
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04/29/2013 9:54 am
Level 22 : Expert Artist
CyanideVii
tehchuanyeowI have been having my eye on this girl for 3 months now, but the problem is I don't know if she likes me or not, she would stare with small glimpses at me and then look away when I notice, she isn't shy at all and speaks up quite a lot, when we see each other we just pretend to ignore each other but when I start a conversation shell join in and start talking to me. I do act like the kind of guy who is the cool dude kind of guy, she's 12 and I'm 16. I find it awkward to talk to her directly, but when were with others we both can talk together. When she sees me, she completely ignores me, but I can tell she's ignoring me cause I saw her looking at me and she doesn't even sit next to me even if I arrive earlier than her and take a seat, she arrives later, sees me, but sits with her friends far away from me. Why? Does she like me or not?

Has she started her period yet?
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04/29/2013 9:52 am
Level 10 : Journeyman Explorer
Matthew_1871
Wow. Hold up. Ur 16 and she is 12???
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04/29/2013 9:34 am
Level 17 : Journeyman Nerd
gabozkhi
Probably.. Idk bro.. The question is.. Do you like her? DDD :-""

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