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thx, i didn't want to explode
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Well this has been fun. But it has to end now, the level of flame will make the_soup explode. Locked.
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"Pedophile! Pedophile!"
No. Shut up. Obviously, none of you even know what the word pedophile means. Go find a god dang dictionary, and stop spreading your ignorance to the younger members.
Does she like you? Probably, but only because she's just starting to develop feelings for the opposite sex, and you're an older boy. It happens to all girls, and her feelings for you will be gone in a week.
Should you act on these feelings? Sure, if you want to ruin any chance of you guys being friends, in the future. Girls rarely stay friends with any of their ex's, especially when they're that young.
Are you wrong for liking her? Heck no! You're a boy, she's a girl. She's most likely pretty, she seems flirtatious, she possibly likes you. It's NORMAL to have a crush on her. However, you need to realize that the four year age gap, when you're that young, is "bigger" than a four year age gap when she's 18, and you're 22, and that neither of your parents are going to like the idea very much, and will most likely put a stop to it.
You also need to be aware of the laws, where you live. If you're in the USA, it's possible that 16 is considered the legal age of consent, and if you were to do anything remotely sexual with her, it would be illegal. 16 is the age of consent in most states, anymore. There are even a few where the age is 14 and 15. Very few are actually 18.
(And YES, guys, I know this is true. I've done my research on it, unlike the rest of you, who are just going off of what your parents, teachers, and friends tell you.)
No. Shut up. Obviously, none of you even know what the word pedophile means. Go find a god dang dictionary, and stop spreading your ignorance to the younger members.
Does she like you? Probably, but only because she's just starting to develop feelings for the opposite sex, and you're an older boy. It happens to all girls, and her feelings for you will be gone in a week.
Should you act on these feelings? Sure, if you want to ruin any chance of you guys being friends, in the future. Girls rarely stay friends with any of their ex's, especially when they're that young.
Are you wrong for liking her? Heck no! You're a boy, she's a girl. She's most likely pretty, she seems flirtatious, she possibly likes you. It's NORMAL to have a crush on her. However, you need to realize that the four year age gap, when you're that young, is "bigger" than a four year age gap when she's 18, and you're 22, and that neither of your parents are going to like the idea very much, and will most likely put a stop to it.
You also need to be aware of the laws, where you live. If you're in the USA, it's possible that 16 is considered the legal age of consent, and if you were to do anything remotely sexual with her, it would be illegal. 16 is the age of consent in most states, anymore. There are even a few where the age is 14 and 15. Very few are actually 18.
(And YES, guys, I know this is true. I've done my research on it, unlike the rest of you, who are just going off of what your parents, teachers, and friends tell you.)
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this is what i think you should do.
go up to her, be cool, and tell her how you feel about her. and maybe she'll start talking too you and start hanging out with you more and more.
that is what i think you should do. how do i know? because i have a love as well.
go up to her, be cool, and tell her how you feel about her. and maybe she'll start talking too you and start hanging out with you more and more.
that is what i think you should do. how do i know? because i have a love as well.
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Your a Fkin Weirdo id kick your ass if you dated a 12 year old , and your probobly a ugly ass nerd ... leave the 12 year pold alone before someone calls the cops on your ass ...
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Don't date for god's sake if you do. My advice is to be friends with her and stay in touch if you really like her. Maybe when you 20+ you could date her.
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She is to young for you, but when you get older (Like out of collage) you could.
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Bro. To be honest, she is more than 3 years under you. Its considered pedophilism if you try anything.
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tehchuanyeowshe's 12 and I'm 16.
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Would I advice against a 4 year age gap in a teenage relationship? Yes. The physical and mental changes one goes through in their preteen and teenage years would make that relationship difficult. People always say things like 'oh my parents are 6 years apart!' but they need to realize that there's a BIG difference between a relationship with a, say, 32 year old and a 38 year old and a 12 and 16 year old development-wise. Besides, should the relationship last a few years, what will you do when you go to college? Or when you're in high school and she's still in middle school?
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I'm 21 and my girl friend is 19. We have been together for 5 years and when we first started dating people did not like it at all. So right now it would be better if you did not act on it trust me.
Also when you turn 18 I'm sure it will be against the law.In my state me and my girlfriend were months to close to me getting arrested and deem as a pedo haha.So keep that in mind.
Also when you turn 18 I'm sure it will be against the law.In my state me and my girlfriend were months to close to me getting arrested and deem as a pedo haha.So keep that in mind.
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I'm guessing that at 19 she has boobs, developed bones and her period? You're 21 and you think a 16/12 relationship is the same as 21/19? She was 15, and I'm assuming at 15 she's menstruating and has boobs. You did not date her when she looked like this.
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@CyanideVii dude, thats just wrong.
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OK. Well first of all..
My friend says your a PEDO/PERV <--IK hes a perv to ....
Also Arent you a bit to old for her. And im kinda like you. ive had an eye on someone for 2 years......Yep...But im too scared that shell say no.Also if my friends know i love someone they get in and always help me out. And trust me. IT DOESNT WORK. just try and figure it out yourself.Also WHAT EVER YOU SAY DONT SAY "Will you go out with me?" IT NEVER WORKS. Ive tried it already with someone else....they slaped me straight away.Also dont say "Do you love me?" They will denie it.
I hope this ^ helped you.
~Social
My friend says your a PEDO/PERV <--IK hes a perv to ....
Also Arent you a bit to old for her. And im kinda like you. ive had an eye on someone for 2 years......Yep...But im too scared that shell say no.Also if my friends know i love someone they get in and always help me out. And trust me. IT DOESNT WORK. just try and figure it out yourself.Also WHAT EVER YOU SAY DONT SAY "Will you go out with me?" IT NEVER WORKS. Ive tried it already with someone else....they slaped me straight away.Also dont say "Do you love me?" They will denie it.
I hope this ^ helped you.
~Social
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too young for you bro
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My father is 10 years older than my mom.
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What's jailbait?
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A 12 year old you have a crush on.
Your mum isn't a preteen.
Shpilenok2001My father is 10 years older than my mom.
Your mum isn't a preteen.
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I think because of the risky 4 year gap it would be too much to try and engage her. Usually I would say that 2 years would be the limit. It is your choice.
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Jailbait.
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To answer your question - No, she doesn't like you. She's about to start puberty and has noticed the other sex. Kind alike how boys start to notice, except girls notice when they are BABIES.
SHES TWELVE SHES A PRETEEN.
(preteen is 10-12)
SHES TWELVE SHES A PRETEEN.
(preteen is 10-12)
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Ok wait what your talking about making babies now?
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Little young....
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I think the question is 'Does she like me?'
Not 'How young can I get away with?'.
So, yes.
Not 'How young can I get away with?'.
So, yes.
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Reverse Pedophile?
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PMC isn't a dating advise website.
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If I was you, I would look for someone closer to your age...
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I'm agreeing with this guy
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Dude, this isn't really the place to ask this. You'll probably get a bunch of immature answers. I would suggest just letting her decide on her own time.
-BD
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are you the same bigdaddy as bigdaddy kimo on ssr?
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^
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^lol what does that have to do with anything?
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Because she's twelve. I don't know man, it'd be kind of weird. My maximum is at least a year younger than me, not four.
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tehchuanyeowI have been having my eye on this girl for 3 months now, but the problem is I don't know if she likes me or not, she would stare with small glimpses at me and then look away when I notice, she isn't shy at all and speaks up quite a lot, when we see each other we just pretend to ignore each other but when I start a conversation shell join in and start talking to me. I do act like the kind of guy who is the cool dude kind of guy, she's 12 and I'm 16. I find it awkward to talk to her directly, but when were with others we both can talk together. When she sees me, she completely ignores me, but I can tell she's ignoring me cause I saw her looking at me and she doesn't even sit next to me even if I arrive earlier than her and take a seat, she arrives later, sees me, but sits with her friends far away from me. Why? Does she like me or not?
Has she started her period yet?
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Wow. Hold up. Ur 16 and she is 12???
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Probably.. Idk bro.. The question is.. Do you like her? DDD :-""