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I have a crush...What should I do?

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created 02/14/2019 7:53 pm by Mooisi
last reply 02/21/2019 12:53 pm
I have a crush on a junior. We have one class together. He's so funny and smart, but I don't know how to talk to him. He laughs at my jokes and I think he wants to be friends with me. BUT IDK HOW TO SOCIALIZE! Halp me ;-; What should I do?

He has a lot of friends and even though I'm pretty smart, he's way smarter than me. I don't think he would be interested in a freshman. I still really want to talk to him but I can't open my mouth around my crush.

Ahh I'm so frustrated. I thought I was over boys after my last relationship, but nuuu Mr. Junior here attracted my attention. Ugh he's so adorable.

Ugh He probably has a girlfriend.

Ugh he's too good for me.

Ugh I'm too scared to talk to him.

AHHHHHHHHHHHHHH


Hello. After reading all the comments, I know what to do now. Ty for sharing your opinions, they were all helpful. I'm gonna take things slow and become friends with him first. Fate will decide the rest. I'm in no hurry for another relationship.




Guys are confusing. He looks at me but doesn't make eye contact?? What does that even mean?


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Mooisi
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02/20/2019 6:24 pm
Level 66 : High Grandmaster Button Pusher
DragonsDungeon
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Step 1: Leave PlanetMinecraft
Step 2: Mad profit.
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02/20/2019 9:26 pm
Level 36 : Artisan Narwhal
Spygron
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xD what is that even supposed to mean tho?
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02/21/2019 12:50 pm
Level 7 : Apprentice Warrior
Techno_Blade654
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it means he likes but just doesn't want to show it. Im a guy i should know right?
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02/21/2019 12:53 pm
Level 7 : Apprentice Warrior
Techno_Blade654
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or he might not make eye contact because he might be afraid that you dont like him
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02/21/2019 12:52 pm
Level 7 : Apprentice Warrior
Techno_Blade654
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when he doesnt make eyecontact
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02/21/2019 1:47 am
Level 2 : Apprentice Farmer
Mooisi
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was NOt expecting this to get so popular...
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02/21/2019 1:46 am
Level 20 : Expert Pirate
alece
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take it slow, don't jump into it too quickly. just start off with a normal friendship and see how it goes. it pretty much never works out if you jump into a romantic relationship too quickly, just remember that
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02/21/2019 1:15 am
Level 7 : Apprentice Warrior
Techno_Blade654
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Whatever you do just be yourself thats the most important thing
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02/21/2019 7:51 am
Level 36 : Artisan Narwhal
Spygron
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Mooisi for that last thing--I do the same thing xD

Just not the 'type' to make eye-contact, maybe? Like me......

ORRRRRR maybe that means he's being shy, and likes you too?......
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02/20/2019 11:05 pm
Level 69 : High Grandmaster Senpai
LaurenAngels_
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Starting the conversation is the hardest thing, just like starting anything is the largest barrier. Once the conversation gets started, I'm sure it'll be way easier. Wait for a good time to talk to him, and ask questions. That's an easy way to carry a conversation, but I'd say it works if you want to talk to a stranger. After asking questions, start talking about similar experiences or things that relate to what he said. But don't think of it as 1. Make sure to ask questions, 2. Make sure to make eye contact, etc, etc. Just be natural. I'd say try to think of him as just a regular person instead of your crush, but I understand that can be very difficult. Relationships are hard in high-school. Confidence is attractive too, and usually when it comes to being confident, fake it till you make it. Fake looking/sounding confident even if you feel super scared and insecure, and it'll start to become real. It works for me and my friends. It's starting the conversations with him that's difficult, like I mentioned before. You'll figure it out from there!

Also, when hearing stories from other people, a common regret I always hear is "I never tried" or "I never did this", and when you're older (if you never did anything) you'll definitely be like "Oh yeah, I liked that guy! I wonder what would've happened if I talked to him.", so keep that in mind. You have nothing to lose talking to him. Maybe a little embarrassment, but at least you were awesome enough to try. My friend Raphael asked a girl out and she rejected him, but he felt better afterwards because now he knows if it would've actually worked out or not.

Oh, and don't pay attention to people ridiculing you for posting your personal questions on a Minecraft website. Some people don't have any friends or family to ask advice from, and maybe they do but their family/friend's advice is flawed. It's okay to reach out to people on a public form, because as you can see you got a lot of advice, all kinds.

I would not recommend being upfront! It depends on the person, and some personalities like that, some don't. I believe most people would want to get to know you first before agreeing to a date with you, and I asked a few guy friends (all juniors) if they'd like an upfront proposal from a girl they didn't know that well even if she was really attractive. They said no, because they may go on a date with that person they didn't know well and end up having a bad time because their personalities don't mix well. I'd say get to know the guy first for a while. My boyfriend and I were good friends before we started dating, and we've lasted for many years because we get along well. We can rant about the same things, disagree peacefully and enjoy the same video games. Starting off as friends is dope. That's just my opinion though, and he could be a completely different guy compared to the ones I know. I hope my advice was at all helpful though.
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02/21/2019 1:42 am
Level 2 : Apprentice Farmer
Mooisi
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wow, thank you

i'm too good at making eye contacts
i think i used to freak people out with my "intense staring" but i realized and learned to blink

i WILL talk to him when i find an opportunity, and tbh i never planned on asking him out. I don't think I'm ready for another relationship yet. Not because I'm not over my ex, but I'm sincerely not ready. You're right about all kinds of advice. I think I know what to do now. Don't worry, them bitches don't bother me.
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02/20/2019 9:29 pm
Level 36 : Artisan Narwhal
Spygron
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Well let's see....I find texting is a good way to say thing, for me it's much easier than irl.

If you can't do that, just work up some courage, and, when you are ready, (it would probably be best to do this in private) come right out and tell him!

It worked for me, hope it does for you too!
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02/20/2019 9:16 pm
Level 28 : Expert Architect
MaxTheRaven
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Asking for love advice on a minecraft fan website..
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02/21/2019 1:43 am
Level 2 : Apprentice Farmer
Mooisi
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yes
where else can i go

and if im seeing correctly, there are a lot of encouraging & helpful people on this website, unlike u ;)
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02/20/2019 9:02 pm
Level 33 : Artisan Magical Girl
PeachyTrader
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I have never dated someone before but maybe this can help?
1st, try not to be so clingy? What i'm saying is let him have his privacy. I don't know what kind of person he is, But I know everyone likes privacy once in a while.
2nd, When he asks you a question about yourself don't lie. No One likes it when you lie especially when its about yourself.
3rd, Don't be afraid to talk to him, If he is busy talking with someone else, that's fine let him be done with talking with them. even if you stutter, try to say words clearly, even if it's quiet.

That's all I know, and be confident. People can sense when your confident. (and be relaxed! you can do it!)
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02/21/2019 1:45 am
Level 2 : Apprentice Farmer
Mooisi
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ha im never the clingy one. girl needs her space. I never lie about myself. I think I'm interesting enough without any sugar coating. But I do need to work on the last one. I'm a confident person in front of my friends, not MY FKING CRUSH...

Ty for believing in me <3
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02/21/2019 2:43 am
Level 3 : Apprentice Miner
BadderJester369
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step 1:make sure he aint no cheater
step 2:make sure he is responsible and can take care of you
step 3:make sure he will get a job
step 4:make sure he gets approved by your parents
step 5: TALK TO DAT YELLO BUIY
step 6:confession (now i know it might be hard for you,but you can do this,just take a deep breath and dont exhale...and then speak to him just like me... "HEY YOU YEAH YOU! I GOTTA CRUSH ON YOU AND YOU BETTER LOVE ME BACK! CUZ IF YOU DONT IM GONNA SUE YOU AND BURN DOWN YO FREAKAN HOUSE!"
haha just kidding dont say that,but confess nicely)
step 7:make sure he approves,grab a gun and tell him that if he dont marry you soon you gonna kill the heck outta him! hahahahahahaha jk
step 8:he will be your bf
step 9: GET MARRIED
step 10:GET LOTSSSSS OF CHILDREEENNN

step 11: happily ever after (except for that 100,000 children part tho)
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02/20/2019 6:05 am
Level 64 : High Grandmaster Artist
SLembas
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Ugh He probably has a girlfriend.

Ugh he's too good for me.

Ugh I'm too scared to talk to him.

This is the problem. Throw your insecurities out the window. Talk to him. Be only yourself, relaxed. Talk to him like it's your old friend. You don't loose absolutely anything if he rejects you, it's only you who will be regretting your whole life not making a move.
Find an opportunity to touch him, when you joke around, pat him on shoulder or something. If he doesn't pick up your intentions, just tell him one on one. If he rejects - say to yourself: "well, at least I tried, and wont regret it in the future. At least he was honest and didn't say he likes me out of feeling bad and dragging this already rotten, built on lies relationship. It's better to be rejected straight away than after you had built a very strong emotional bond to him. There are always better people out there for me".
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02/21/2019 1:46 am
Level 2 : Apprentice Farmer
Mooisi
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yeeeah
ty for sharing ur opinion ^^
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02/20/2019 5:02 am
Level 12 : Journeyman Archer
Kwanatla
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I know this can be hard, just be yourself, try to find common interests and such. Don't go ask him out immediately, get to know him a bit first. When you have one class together that's pretty good! Slightly hypocritical of me to say this, but take opportunities, don't be shy and don't give up if there's still hope.
Good luck!
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02/18/2019 4:03 pm
Level 42 : Master Toast
Miku
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lure him behind a tree at the 1st grader's playground and then make your friend confess your feelings
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02/18/2019 4:03 pm
Level 42 : Master Toast
Miku
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make sure you reel him in with a fishing pole, thats how u get em
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02/18/2019 6:41 pm
Level 2 : Apprentice Farmer
Mooisi
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ahaha if only we had a playground and i knew how to fish
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02/18/2019 4:05 pm
Level 21 : Expert Skinner
FluffyBunnies23
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walk into him and fall like you're blind and bam you're somehow kissing him
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02/18/2019 6:41 pm
Level 2 : Apprentice Farmer
Mooisi
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hell no
but thx XD
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02/18/2019 7:27 pm
Level 21 : Expert Skinner
FluffyBunnies23
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xD i was joking but seriously, get to know him, talk to him, drop subtle hints that you're interested. After about 2 months i guess?? Maybe 1 month? If you're still interested in him, tell him how you feel. If he doesn't feel the same way, but you still wanna hang out with him, ask if you can still be friends. I'm not sure if this will work, I've never had a crush or dated anyone soo.. good luck <3
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02/18/2019 4:12 pm
Level 25 : Expert Skinner
Lacanese
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Get to know him honestly. That's the best you can do, don't do some weird lovely dove stuff yet. You need to know how you really feel and you could possibly only have a minor crush that might not even work out well. Talk to him like a normal person (no such thing as normal, whatever).Then see how you feel after getting to know him.
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02/18/2019 4:16 pm
Level 25 : Expert Skinner
Lacanese
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Also, it would be best to know if he is attracted to women in the first place (assuming you're a girl)
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02/18/2019 6:44 pm
Level 2 : Apprentice Farmer
Mooisi
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hmm im kinda worried
what if he's not allowed to date...
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02/20/2019 9:24 pm
Level 36 : Artisan Narwhal
Spygron
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that never stopped me xD
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02/18/2019 6:43 pm
Level 2 : Apprentice Farmer
Mooisi
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yee i agree
i wont do anything crazy before i feel confident about our friendship
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02/18/2019 4:07 pm
Level 1 : New Network
Sneal
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Alright half the kids here probably never asked anyone out and had a legitimate relationship with them so listen up.

Straight up ask him out, don't do any of the notes stuff, play games to get him, etc. However, don't ask him out without knowing him first. Make sure the two of you guys are friends. After about a month of being friends, pay attention to how he feels around you, if all seems good, ask him out. If not, then find another guy because there's a lot of other guys who'd be meant for you.
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02/18/2019 4:03 pm
Level 29 : Expert Spelunker
GoggleD0GG
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1. Become friends
2. Give subtle hints
3. HEY I HAVE A CRUSH ON YOU
4. If he rejects say it was a dare and laugh
5. Don’t forget to be secretly recording you confessing so if he rejects you can ‘prove’ it was a joke
6. If he accepts, congrats.
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02/18/2019 3:26 pm
Level 1 : New Miner
ForgottenCompany
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if he is into gaming and minecraft, tell him you asked help on this forum and he will fall for you
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02/20/2019 5:37 am
Level 40 : Master Droid
walk
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seems legit
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02/18/2019 2:29 pm
Level 14 : Journeyman Mage
Princessbookbear
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*Just dance*
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02/18/2019 2:29 pm
Level 2 : Apprentice Farmer
Mooisi
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haha i cant XD
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02/18/2019 2:16 pm
Level 1 : New Explorer
FACTV10
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You should CRUSH him! (get it? yeah that joke sucked)
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02/18/2019 4:22 pm
Level 1 : New Miner
thebeatles1313
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Just for the record, I dated a freshman my SENIOR year of high school, and before y'all get your judgemental attitudes, out, I met her because I play piano for the church choir she's in.
Anyways, we started dating because I took the chance to get to KNOW her and I was like holy crap this girl is like the sweetest human ever and we're still dating! If he's a seriously good guy, he'll look at YOU and not your age or your body.
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02/18/2019 6:42 pm
Level 2 : Apprentice Farmer
Mooisi
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awww that's so fucking sweet ;u;
ill keep that in mind
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02/18/2019 2:57 pm
Level 1 : New Miner
GrillbyGirl
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dont be afraid, just man up and talk to him like get some friends to help. if not, then ignore him, hes not that
big of a deal.
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02/18/2019 6:44 pm
Level 2 : Apprentice Farmer
Mooisi
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no
but i WILL woman up ;)
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02/18/2019 2:27 pm
Level 1 : New Miner
sup_my_g
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yo my g just gotta give em a letter if youre too scared, go get em g
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02/18/2019 2:28 pm
Level 2 : Apprentice Farmer
Mooisi
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oh hell no i do NOT want physical evidence -w-

but ty for the advice
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02/17/2019 2:54 pm
Level 27 : Expert Creeper Hugger
Bowmanimmortal
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Now I'm a guy so IDK if this works, but you need to tell him upfront. If not, he'll seem confused by attempts of kindness, and be less likely to say yes to a date. If he doesn't know why you are being so nice to him, he'll shrug it off and not realize or care as much. I've already said this, but I'm a guy, not a lady, but I know that when girls do this to me and then ask me on a date, I finally realize why they've been so kind, but don't exactly have time to remember all they've done, because I shrugged it off in the past. Anyway be a good child and have a nice date! (Roses are red, violets are blue, IDK what to say, do you?)
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02/17/2019 7:42 pm
Level 6 : Apprentice Miner
wdarrel
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Tell a friend to tell him so you know if he's single or into you or anything, no need to have a crush if nothing is ever gonna happen!
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02/17/2019 7:09 pm
Level 2 : Apprentice Architect
jmanslam2009
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I have had this happen before, basically just for the few first days say "Hi" or "Hey" then one day just pass a note that says: "Do you like me?", worked for me.
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02/17/2019 2:45 pm
Level 2 : Apprentice Farmer
Mooisi
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omg ty everyone for the super helpful replies! I really appreciate them all <3
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02/15/2019 5:53 pm
Level 3 : Apprentice Skinner
Taconator_G
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Try to get to know him on a friendship level before approaching him with romantic intentions. get to know him outside of his appearance. know what he's like on the inside. start out with small talk every so often, find out his interests to see if you have one in common, if so, ask him about it.
  Try your best to stay calm when around him, he's a normal person just like everyone else.
 If he has a girlfriend, just stay his friend for the time being. you want him to be happy correct? then be patient, and I can't stress this enough when I say be his friend first.

Don't forget, you're still young, you have the rest of your life to spend with your one true love, how bad is it to wait a few weeks or years for him to love you back? when you have all of eternity.
Guys can't read clues, so after you become friends with him, get to know him really. then you need to just tell him.

Remember, this takes time, just be patient and you're probably a great person, so, he'll love you back once he gets to know you.

Good Luck!
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02/15/2019 1:49 pm
Level 28 : Expert Pig
Roroo
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Get your friend to hold a mirror behind him, and go up to him and talk to him about a guy you love and respect and adore etc.. And then say "he's actually behind you!", and when he looks, he'll find himself in the mirror. It's a cute, funny, and adorable way to express your love. <3

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