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I invited myself to a party, now I feel bad.
ColbaltHD
AdonisPrison
So a lot of people I know are going to the party and I am pretty good friends with the person so I asked why she did not invite me then she said I could only invite so many in the beginning. So I asked and she said yea sure (Gave me the date and time). But now I feel bad should I even go?
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I would go if she said she would make room for you
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As long as you know you're not bugging anybody, and can brighten the atmosphere a bit, then go right ahead. It's not awkward to ask, maybe she forgot, or as she said, she had a limit, but she does say that she can make room, so she's expecting you to come over.
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The thing is she said and I quote "Yea sorry there was a limit on the people that I could Invite but yea I can make room for ya " So I think I might go (we have known each other for 4 years now).
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I'd say that you should go, but next time, if you know about a party but you weren't invited, don't bring it up, and don't ask if you can go.
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It wasn't really rude to ask unless it was someone you didn't know too well. Now that you have asked, it would be rude to not show up.
If you're worried you might be making it harder on her, you can ask if it would make things easier if you gave up your spot for someone else. Chances are she'll still say you should come and you'd have given her an extra opportunity to change her decision.
If you're worried you might be making it harder on her, you can ask if it would make things easier if you gave up your spot for someone else. Chances are she'll still say you should come and you'd have given her an extra opportunity to change her decision.
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Make sure your friends in their view and they aren’t just your friend because it can be really annoying having someone who thinks their your friend and practically stalks you. If thats it then you should probably try making friends or make friends with them but if not then either the above is right or they couldn’t actually invite you.
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BUmp
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you dont get if you dont ask!
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If you asked her can you come then why are you feeling bad? If you were going to the party without no invite what-so-ever THEN you should feel bad, if she didn't want you to come then she would has said no!
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Well, it's like a pity invite. I had a party at my house one time, and the guy that usually sits with me and my friends at lunch asked if he could go to. It's one of those situations where you really don't want to say "No", because you don't want to feel bad/make the other person feel bad.
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Yeah didn't even consider that :/
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I'd go
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Well now she has offered it would be rude to decline, especially since you enquired about it so yeah you should still go.
