I host a small gaming community and survival server that hang out and talk on discord. Age range is 12 years old to mid 60, but most members is around teen age or 20 somethings. We have member you might be able to relate to in you age group, I think he's 13 now. We're based out of Eastern time zone (or New York time). Let me know if you want to join us. I made this group for much of the same reason as well.

I'm 20. I was home schooled during middle school and know it can be tough being lonely all the time. If you have social anxiety it can be 10x harder. A lot of people I know who play Minecraft are introverts. Having too much time to yourself can be fun actually lol. It gives you time to learn things in-depth that you wouldn't otherwise have time for.

It isn't an uncommon thing to be a lonely Minecrafter.
Be your special snowflake self.

I'm 14, but I'm Filipino.

always people around here to hang with, poke the chat https://www.planetminecraft.com/chat/

poke the forums https://www.planetminecraft.com/forums/

poke the discord https://discord.gg/0pZYADqhZ8DkzCG6

there is no lack of people here to be friends with

Well, I'm not 14, but maybe if you wanna find someone to play with, then I would highly recommend you join this Discord group. https://discordapp.com/invite/minecraft

It's a Minecraft only Discord group where people are always active and wants to play :p I'm a member myself. It's just a lot easier to find people there than it is to do here on PMC :p