I have a 1.14.4 server that has an anticheat, but no rules. I have also a 1.12.2 server that allows hacking but no griefing or raiding. (Most servers are either pure vanilla anarchy, or anticheat servers with rules everywhere, so why not do the opposite?)
Use either:
dragonmc.0.us.to:25800 (1.14.4)
or
dragonmc.0.us.to:25850 (1.12.2)

Despite the no rules, there is surprisingly little griefing. There is actually MORE grief on the no griefing allowed server then the one where you can do whatever you wish with no admins or rules.

We get plenty of players, more so on the 1.14.4 server then the 1.12.2 server, come and check us out.

You can join mine, we have 3 people on it, all over 18. Its completely vanilla, and no one on it is the griefing type.

EDIT also no landclaim either

coreyworld.mcnetwork.me it's an economy/roleplay server and if you need any help i'm on and i'm the co-owner.

Yea Sakura Island is a good server to play on. They were ranked for one of the best servers of July 2019 and is pretty much troll/whiny kid resistant with their rules set up. I highly suggest checking them out. They have 4-8 players online at a time usually. 10 if busy.

SakuraSB.apexmc.co

mc.blockcafe.ru



If you don't mind this is a Russian server all seems good. It runs the latest Minecraft version and has no wipes. Also, mods can rollback your territory if someone decides to grief you.

Why 1.14? 1.14 servers are generally laggy and behind in tps. I have 1.12.2 server with a mature community. 1.14 isnt worth it when it comes to multiplayer

EDIT: You can connect to 1.14.3