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Simply by adding me on skype (Im from Holland btw)
Mah skype = joshuathegamernl Yup, I know that's the worst skype name ever, but I came up with it when I was young as fk lol.
Feel free to talk about anything to me.
Mah skype = joshuathegamernl Yup, I know that's the worst skype name ever, but I came up with it when I was young as fk lol.
Feel free to talk about anything to me.
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Well.. you play Minecraft.. sooo.. It's understandable
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Oh lol rekt. Bit harsh xD.
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most people are friends with people on here that they know irl
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Most people struggle with the feeling of being disliked by their peers at some point in their life. This is normal, in fact, it could be said that it is part of the "human experience." That being said, it doesn't make feelings of loneliness or inadequacy go away overnight.
Depending on your personality, the lack of an active social life can be very depressing, but it's important to remember that many people are struggling with the same issue, and there's actually a lot to be hopeful about!
As to making and finding friends, here are my top tips:
Depending on your personality, the lack of an active social life can be very depressing, but it's important to remember that many people are struggling with the same issue, and there's actually a lot to be hopeful about!
As to making and finding friends, here are my top tips:
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1. Don't sit around waiting for people to magically walk into your life
Explore new interests. Even if they don't sound all that fun to you at first, try plenty of new things, even if you only do them once.
Join a club at your school or local community center.
Take a painting, pottery, yoga, or horse riding class. If those things are too expensive, try finding groupons or discount deals for even a single class.
If you're old enough, try volunteering at a local charity or event, like an animal shelter, nursing home, local festival, or house building project.
Stuff like this helps you get out of your own head, and get involved with something that might lead to the discovery of other common interests with some of the people you meet.
Finally, go to parties and fundraisers that you're invited to, even if you have to go alone. Boy or girl, there are very few casual social events where it would be "weird" to go alone. Besides, if you're on your own, you're more likely to gravitate to and attract other people in the same boat that you are!
2. Try to be friendly, polite, and aware of the wants and needs of others.
This comes more naturally to some than others, but with enough effort, almost anyone can learn to be a better friend. One of the most important things is to be humble. This might sound silly, but most people have a strong dislike of anyone who "toots their own horn." When talking to people, especially for the first time, try to do more listening than talking. You'll learn more about this new potential friend than you would if you do most of the talking. Ask them questions that are pertinent, but not too personal. For real life interactions, questions about their favorite music, hobbies, career/school, etc. are excellent. Try to show interest in other people's interests and personal accomplishments. Above all, avoid being obnoxious or arrogant. If you leave people with the impression that you think you're smarter or better than they are, they probably won't want to spend time with you again!
Don't get discouraged.
When you're feeling lonely, it's easy to become discouraged with the thought that you'll never have friends, but you will!!
It may take some time, but you will meet people that you get along with and like you! You may have to try a lot of new things, many of which you might not enjoy very much, and dip your foot into a lot of social pools that don't pan out, but you will eventually find your own social niche! Obviously, you play minecraft, so look at it this way: Finding good friends can be like fishing for a saddle. It's a rare find, and you might spend a lot of time doing it, and catch a lot of useless or unwanted items along the way, but in the end, it'll happen. You just have to persevere!
Also, don't think that you have to have a bunch of friends to be a well-liked person. Most people only have one or two really good, close friends at a time. Seek out deeper, more meaningful relationships where you and your friend make one another better people. Although extremely rare, those are the best friendships of all.
Explore new interests. Even if they don't sound all that fun to you at first, try plenty of new things, even if you only do them once.
Join a club at your school or local community center.
Take a painting, pottery, yoga, or horse riding class. If those things are too expensive, try finding groupons or discount deals for even a single class.
If you're old enough, try volunteering at a local charity or event, like an animal shelter, nursing home, local festival, or house building project.
Stuff like this helps you get out of your own head, and get involved with something that might lead to the discovery of other common interests with some of the people you meet.
Finally, go to parties and fundraisers that you're invited to, even if you have to go alone. Boy or girl, there are very few casual social events where it would be "weird" to go alone. Besides, if you're on your own, you're more likely to gravitate to and attract other people in the same boat that you are!
2. Try to be friendly, polite, and aware of the wants and needs of others.
This comes more naturally to some than others, but with enough effort, almost anyone can learn to be a better friend. One of the most important things is to be humble. This might sound silly, but most people have a strong dislike of anyone who "toots their own horn." When talking to people, especially for the first time, try to do more listening than talking. You'll learn more about this new potential friend than you would if you do most of the talking. Ask them questions that are pertinent, but not too personal. For real life interactions, questions about their favorite music, hobbies, career/school, etc. are excellent. Try to show interest in other people's interests and personal accomplishments. Above all, avoid being obnoxious or arrogant. If you leave people with the impression that you think you're smarter or better than they are, they probably won't want to spend time with you again!
Don't get discouraged.
When you're feeling lonely, it's easy to become discouraged with the thought that you'll never have friends, but you will!!
It may take some time, but you will meet people that you get along with and like you! You may have to try a lot of new things, many of which you might not enjoy very much, and dip your foot into a lot of social pools that don't pan out, but you will eventually find your own social niche! Obviously, you play minecraft, so look at it this way: Finding good friends can be like fishing for a saddle. It's a rare find, and you might spend a lot of time doing it, and catch a lot of useless or unwanted items along the way, but in the end, it'll happen. You just have to persevere!
Also, don't think that you have to have a bunch of friends to be a well-liked person. Most people only have one or two really good, close friends at a time. Seek out deeper, more meaningful relationships where you and your friend make one another better people. Although extremely rare, those are the best friendships of all.
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idk bruh just do u
