I've heard a lot of people talking about valentines day, about if it's unnecessary stressing or completely merchandised. I think Valentine's day is more like a day to spend time with loved ones from family to partners, it's not only buying chocolate or gifts to your partner. If you think that Valentine's day is a merchandised day is because(probably) you/close persons have had that type of experience, you're the ones that can change this day as your version because it's a day you spend with close people, not people that you don't know so you have more influence than in Christmas or Halloween. So relax don't get stressed by the thoughts of this day or this gift must be perfect for your partner. Said this I want to tell you that I'm not in love with anyone and I don't feel any pressure for being single, I hear that people often get pressured by this date to get singled out but I feel like it doesn't happen (at least to me).