It feels like in this generation its a struggle to say 'No'

Especially for girls. We want to be kind and sweet and help others out. But, there is a point where you deserve to say 'No'

Culture has made it almost impossible for people to say 'no'. Have you ever heard of the words 'People pleaser' That's just extra proof.

We want to help out, and be kind, make everyone happy. But, let me tell you something its impossible to make 'everyone' happy.

I know, I used to be super shy. (I know right I was!) lol. You go into a store, and feel almost awkward to walk out without buying something. Or someone asks your opinion on something you don't want to make it awkward so you just say 'yes'

The problem is. Manipulation is a big thing now. If you don't have a 'no' people can push you around. And I assure you they will.

I'm not saying its easy. But, you deserve a 'no' You shouldn't be getting pushed around.

Another explanation for girls. When it comes to dating, sometimes its really hard to say 'no' to a guy. Because you don't want to hurt his feelings. But, honestly if you have any respect for yourself. And respect at all, you should have a 'no'

Now I'm not saying to flat out walk up to the guy and say 'No' (That would honestly sound mean lol) But, 'no' can be its own sentence. If you want to walk away from something you feel yourself screaming 'no' walk away.

Questions to ask yourself:
Is there someone I'm letting push me around because I never say no? Do I always try to make everyone happy and bring myself on a burn out?

I hope this helps. :)

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