you need a community, using something like discord where people can chat and talk about anything as well as just minecraft you make friendships, and then its not just about your build but also about others and there builds helping them and then expanding the circle as others join. if your only thinking me myself and I then it's always going to fail, when you get a group of people who can become friends and almost feels like a family, then building this that or the other doesnt really matter, its also about being there and taking part and helping others find there way.
