Higurashi no naku koro ni. If you liked elfen lied then you would like this. It's got horror, mystery, violence but then also comedy, romance and a bunch of happy stuff... It's hard to explain but it's really good!
I think the games are a lot more family-based than other consoles. They don't really make the kind of games ps3 and xbox make (loooots of first person shooters) not that that's a bad thing.
When they're crap at the game but they've been playing for a long time, I don't give a crap whether i'm rude to them or not. I try to be nice to new players though.