Over the past couple days there have been alot of arguing on this forum but is any arguments really necessary. are flame wars ever necessary. I mean a simple friendly discussion that is supposed to be friendly becomes in to big flame wars and the topic ends up being locked. Thing is,it is completely unnecessary. This forum is supposed to be a giant community,a family almost yet some people bicker and fight when it could just be an misunderstanding. The thing that makes me mad the most is that it ruins what this forum,to me,is supposed to be about. It not only ruins that but when new members come to this website and see things like this,it becomes a bad example and not only that but could turn them away. Putting it in pms is one thing but gossiping,spreading it around forums is completely unacceptable. It is also sometimes considered a way of cyber bulling. What I am saying is for people who do this should really think about the consequences of his action and also how it effects other planet minecraft member.

For people who end up in these arguments and end up greatly upset,listen to what an admin has said to me because I would get angry and upset ,"to stop and think,get a soda, and come back later when you're calm and can think straight."

This is something alot of people have a hard time doing when they are angry and yes I know sometimes it is hard to do but it only helps the situation. I know this has probably been said time and time again but I have to say this,if someone is making you upset,calmy talk about it and try to look on both sides not just one or else you will never get anywere. Always try your best to forgive because not only does it make the other person feel better,but trust me it will make you feel better as well. I know it can be hard but just,lets say you want someone to forgive you but no matter how much you plead,they never do and treat you almost like you are worthless. It is a really painful feeling and no one should ever feel like that,I know you wouldn't want to.

This is just my request to some of you planet minecraft members of some things to try to help any bad situation on planet minecraft. this is just some suggestions and I know some of you might not listen but it is always worth to try.