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Heart Broken, what should I do?
AllisonTheGamer2
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IRL stuff: Ok so I had this big crush on someone and I was for sure he had a crush on me as well, but then he started to stop talking to me. He was flirting with a girl and he asked her out. Im so heart broken. What should I do? -Crona
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AllisonTheGamer2Im turning 17 in a few days -Crona
You really
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Shouldn't Lie
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When anyone can check your history.
I'm locking this as its gone on long enough. Any advice that could have been given has been given.
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Ah PMC love dramas.
Well that's life man, just throw you line back in the ocean and hope to catch something new
Well that's life man, just throw you line back in the ocean and hope to catch something new
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Go watch Degrassi
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laugh at people getting hurt.
It helps when im bored,so it must help like that too.
It helps when im bored,so it must help like that too.
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Eat pie, it makes everything better.
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ThisOneBlockAllisonTheGamer2IRL stuff: Ok so I had this big crush on someone and I was for sure he had a crush on me as well, but then he started to stop talking to me. He was flirting with a girl and he asked her out. Im so heart broken. What should I do? -Crona
well this is easy - find someone else to get the guy jealous and if the girl breaks up with guy then go for the chance because he will be depressed
*Facepalm*
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*hugs Crona*
Lets be best friends :..)
Lets be best friends :..)
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In the words of a wise magic dog from the greatest cartoon show in history:
Dating is like riding a horse, if you fall off you have to get back on a different horse and there are a lot of fish in the sea!
Try Icecream? It helped me that one time with the weird pickled herring....
Dating is like riding a horse, if you fall off you have to get back on a different horse and there are a lot of fish in the sea!
Try Icecream? It helped me that one time with the weird pickled herring....
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JezzaRulesAllisonTheGamer2
Im turning 17 in a few days -Crona
You've got ways to go man. Still plenty of time to find love, don't let that dude knock you off your feet.
Would it make you feel better if I said I'm 24 and I've never been in a relationship?
wooh theres still hope for me x3, i'm 17 and never had one ;-; #yay xd
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Eat a lot and watch drama movies
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AllisonTheGamer2
Im turning 17 in a few days -Crona
You've got ways to go man. Still plenty of time to find love, don't let that dude knock you off your feet.
Would it make you feel better if I said I'm 24 and I've never been in a relationship?
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beware that find a great friend can turn in the same situation
try to find a girl as friend, that will help alot
try to find a girl as friend, that will help alot
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COOPERx223xFlaming AppleSnowyKaida
Looks like Emma Stone. I guess this is what she feels like afterin The Amazing Spider-Man 2.Click to revealdieing
It is her. And for the love of god, man, spoilers!AllisonTheGamer2Im not at all offended by your opinion, in fact, My hopes raised up from your comment. Everyone thinks im young here, but Im nott. And Im ok with that.
Again, just the first time I fell in love with someone and Im not sure what to do now.
Frozen is everywhere
I'm glad I could cheer you up, then! If you don't mind me asking, how old are you? Or at least what grade level?
Love is a very big and powerful word, and in my opinion should never be used lightly.
Im turning 17 in a few days -Crona
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All you need is a friend, so you can talk to (im a boy, yes) but I am also a good listener.
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Eat all the icecream you can find!!!!!!!! It helps alot!!!!!
It Really does... *Munch* *munch*
It Really does... *Munch* *munch*
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These things happen alot so don't feel too bad about it.
The worst thing you can do is bringing yourself down with that situation.
I had a similar situation where I got into an argument with a good friend where I overreacted when she posted something unpleasant on social media. Feeling upset, I confronted her about it which led to her blocking me not only on social media but purposely ignoring me IRL completely like I'm a brick wall.
Got upset over it for nearly a year because I still saw her as a friend and despite my attempts to apologise, she still treated me like I don't exist.
For the next three months, I began taking out my frustrations and anger on some of our mutual friends and ended up carrying a bigoted view towards people sharing the same ethnic and mannerisms as her. I even started cutting people away despite their willingness to help me back onto my feet.
Took me nearly 4 months to realise I was dragging myself down. With a lot of support from my good friends, I slowly began accepting others instead of shutting people away and I started mending my relationships.
Right now I'm over the whole thing but I still haven't resolved the issue with that girl yet. The point of me telling you my story is that despite whatever life throws at you, it's very important to not dwell on the issue and to move on. Don't do what I did, by that I mean be an ass and treat everyone else like how the object of your pain treated you.
Personally I find music and reading extremely helpful to ease your troubles, may not be the case for you but try to find something you enjoy alot to take your mind off him.
Hope my story helps.
The worst thing you can do is bringing yourself down with that situation.
I had a similar situation where I got into an argument with a good friend where I overreacted when she posted something unpleasant on social media. Feeling upset, I confronted her about it which led to her blocking me not only on social media but purposely ignoring me IRL completely like I'm a brick wall.
Got upset over it for nearly a year because I still saw her as a friend and despite my attempts to apologise, she still treated me like I don't exist.
For the next three months, I began taking out my frustrations and anger on some of our mutual friends and ended up carrying a bigoted view towards people sharing the same ethnic and mannerisms as her. I even started cutting people away despite their willingness to help me back onto my feet.
Took me nearly 4 months to realise I was dragging myself down. With a lot of support from my good friends, I slowly began accepting others instead of shutting people away and I started mending my relationships.
Right now I'm over the whole thing but I still haven't resolved the issue with that girl yet. The point of me telling you my story is that despite whatever life throws at you, it's very important to not dwell on the issue and to move on. Don't do what I did, by that I mean be an ass and treat everyone else like how the object of your pain treated you.
Personally I find music and reading extremely helpful to ease your troubles, may not be the case for you but try to find something you enjoy alot to take your mind off him.
Hope my story helps.
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Duct tape fixes everyhting
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I'm a boy... and this happened to me... i was heart broken because i had liked her a lot but i eventually got over it.
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You're very young and at this age is DOES NOT matter. Trust me on this, Ive been through it, its not worth it. Your life will go on.
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Do you like chocolate?
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Koslaw99jdf2Hope you feel better!Koslaw99If GiveAHug was up right now *cough cough jared finish migrating into MySQL* I'd give you a hug
Meh...
Fix it Fix it Fix it
Fit it Felix!
i'm sorry...
anyways it's ok, i'm sure one day you'll meet someone who truly wants to be with you. even if they have brain damage.
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Well i am not to experienced with these kind of stuff, but my GF asked me out.
I would just suggest you wait until he breaks up with the girl, probably won't last that long, most relationships where you just are together for the heck of it don't last long.
Take your chance then and ask him out
I would just suggest you wait until he breaks up with the girl, probably won't last that long, most relationships where you just are together for the heck of it don't last long.
Take your chance then and ask him out
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just keep swimming
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Sit and think for a moment: What could he actually do for you if you were together? Why did you like him? Did he do something that seemed attractive and if so, what was it? How would he treat you if you were a couple? In the meantime I'd recommend staying strong, just move on. There are plenty more guys out there, and I bet lots of them would be perfect for you<3 If you meet someone again but you're too scared to ask them out, don't wait for them to ask you. You could get a friend to ask for you?
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Grieve and let him go. Find another guy who is loving and caring.
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Flaming AppleSnowyKaida
Looks like Emma Stone. I guess this is what she feels like afterin The Amazing Spider-Man 2.Click to revealdieing
It is her. And for the love of god, man, spoilers!
AllisonTheGamer2Im not at all offended by your opinion, in fact, My hopes raised up from your comment. Everyone thinks im young here, but Im nott. And Im ok with that.
Again, just the first time I fell in love with someone and Im not sure what to do now.
Frozen is everywhere
I'm glad I could cheer you up, then! If you don't mind me asking, how old are you? Or at least what grade level?
Love is a very big and powerful word, and in my opinion should never be used lightly.
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Sorry, I just had to.
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xD Its ok, I find is very funny -Crona
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well obviously you didnty make your move your fault LOL.
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wow rude
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O_o Way to make me feel sad again. -Crona
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Looks like Emma Stone. I guess this is what she feels like after dieing in The Amazing Spider-Man 2.
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She does look like her
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My gosh lol
You just gave me an answer without using words.
Its a world record -Crona
You just gave me an answer without using words.
Its a world record -Crona
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Most of the replies have already stated this, but your best option is to just let it go. I don't know how old you are, but given the circumstances I'm gonna assume you're young, early teens at most. In that case, here's a word of advice:
If you think you love a guy and you're totally gonna grow up together and be the couple that stays together forever and all that fun stuff, the sad reality is that it's almost 99% not gonna happen. You're going to have your heart broken. Multiple times, most likely, and probably in worse ways than this. I'm not just talking out of my butt here, either. I'm an 18 y/o guy, and I've had some pretty bad relationships. But the thing is, after I had those bad break ups or whatever else, I moved on.
I know this all sounds pretty negative, but believe me, even the worst relationships are valuable learning experiences. As young as you probably are, I can guarantee that you don't know exactly what you want in a relationship. Dating people is how you find out what that stuff is. And once you do know, and you find the person you're meant to be with, the two of you will know.
So, in short, just let it go. Move on, find someone else. This stuff isn't an exact science, so if something ends up worse off than you expected, just roll with it.
And yes, I can already see the Frozen-themed replies.
If you think you love a guy and you're totally gonna grow up together and be the couple that stays together forever and all that fun stuff, the sad reality is that it's almost 99% not gonna happen. You're going to have your heart broken. Multiple times, most likely, and probably in worse ways than this. I'm not just talking out of my butt here, either. I'm an 18 y/o guy, and I've had some pretty bad relationships. But the thing is, after I had those bad break ups or whatever else, I moved on.
I know this all sounds pretty negative, but believe me, even the worst relationships are valuable learning experiences. As young as you probably are, I can guarantee that you don't know exactly what you want in a relationship. Dating people is how you find out what that stuff is. And once you do know, and you find the person you're meant to be with, the two of you will know.
So, in short, just let it go. Move on, find someone else. This stuff isn't an exact science, so if something ends up worse off than you expected, just roll with it.
And yes, I can already see the Frozen-themed replies.
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Im not at all offended by your opinion, in fact, My hopes raised up from your comment. Everyone thinks im young here, but Im nott. And Im ok with that.
Again, just the first time I fell in love with someone and Im not sure what to do now.
Frozen is everywhere
Again, just the first time I fell in love with someone and Im not sure what to do now.
Frozen is everywhere
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What really helps me is:
-Have tea
-Do some yoga with a parent or dog
-Stare at a peice of cheese and think of five ways cheese needs to be implanted into Minecraft
-Spin in CIRCLES
-Punch something like Hermione did to Malfoy.
-I really don't know any others.
-Have tea
-Do some yoga with a parent or dog
-Stare at a peice of cheese and think of five ways cheese needs to be implanted into Minecraft
-Spin in CIRCLES
-Punch something like Hermione did to Malfoy.
-I really don't know any others.
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Excercise. Not sure how it really works but when you excercise (after anyway) you get super happy fun time chemicals that make you happier or something. As you can tell I'm quite the biologist.
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I can be very.. Agressive..
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Meh. I'm sorry I've never realy liked any one but I think two twins like me But just play it cool, act like you never liked them. STOP TALKING TO THEM. DONT EVEN LOOK AT THEM COLD SHOULDER FOR DA WIN
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Well, first off, you probably shouldn't have assumed he had a crush on you, so you can't blame him. Secondly, you shouldn't be asking this with Minecraft. I mean, this is how I responded to one person:
Him: What does it mean when a girl smiles and kisses you?
Me: It means she is a robot and she is trying to implant a chip in your brain.
Ask your parents or your friends or something.
Him: What does it mean when a girl smiles and kisses you?
Me: It means she is a robot and she is trying to implant a chip in your brain.
Ask your parents or your friends or something.
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Move on. Sorry... This is the best advice. Don't get to tangled with that stuff. You have greater priorities.
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5 simple steps
1. Go on Netflix (Don't have it? get it)
2. Grab cookies, icecream, and put brownies in the oven (This can be substituted with pie)
3. Turn something on that you like (If anime skip to number 5 then go to 4)
4. Forget about the douche who went for someone else and go check on your brownies
5. Watch 2 whole seasons of 5 different animes
Boom
1. Go on Netflix (Don't have it? get it)
2. Grab cookies, icecream, and put brownies in the oven (This can be substituted with pie)
3. Turn something on that you like (If anime skip to number 5 then go to 4)
4. Forget about the douche who went for someone else and go check on your brownies
5. Watch 2 whole seasons of 5 different animes
Boom
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I find this very funny -Crona
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that was my goal
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I dunno how old you are, but if you're under like 22, I say just forget about love and focus on your studies/work.
Love ends up as marriage, and It takes lots of money to take care of a family, so really, until you hit 20 or something more, you should only focus on your education.
Believe me. If you don't work hard on your education now, you are gonna struggle in the future.
Love ends up as marriage, and It takes lots of money to take care of a family, so really, until you hit 20 or something more, you should only focus on your education.
Believe me. If you don't work hard on your education now, you are gonna struggle in the future.
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TRUTH
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