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Heart Broken, what should I do?

AllisonTheGamer2's Avatar AllisonTheGamer26/22/14 11:06 pm
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IRL stuff: Ok so I had this big crush on someone and I was for sure he had a crush on me as well, but then he started to stop talking to me. He was flirting with a girl and he asked her out. Im so heart broken. What should I do? -Crona
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Zethess
06/22/2014 11:18 pm
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Theres more people out there than that ungrateful -lady- .like the saying theres plenty more fish in the sea
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Aethroz
06/22/2014 11:21 pm
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Cry. Eat. Read a book. Keep going. Just keep going.
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LetsPlay2D
06/22/2014 11:29 pm
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How 'bout pie? And some warming words I can't think of right now?
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Koslaw99
06/22/2014 11:31 pm
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If GiveAHug was up right now *cough cough jared finish migrating into MySQL* I'd give you a hug
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OutbreakPrisonServer
06/22/2014 11:32 pm
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gurl let me fill yo heart <3
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4377699683
06/22/2014 11:32 pm
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Hope you feel better!


Koslaw99If GiveAHug was up right now *cough cough jared finish migrating into MySQL* I'd give you a hug

Meh...
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Heinz Doobershmidt
06/22/2014 11:34 pm
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From my experiences, I always chased the women I liked. Sounds like you still like him, is that correct? If so, why stop chasing? There's always a chance that they will break up and if so, give it some time, and ask him out yourself! As a guy myself, I've been asked out by a girl once. Scared the hell out of me but I was so happy! If you are shy, there's always the 'Get a friend to ask' thing, but I found that cliché, as it doesn't express yourself truly. Do from whatever you want, leave him and forget, or keep chasing! Up to you c:
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Koslaw99
06/22/2014 11:35 pm
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jdf2Hope you feel better!


Koslaw99If GiveAHug was up right now *cough cough jared finish migrating into MySQL* I'd give you a hug

Meh...

Fix it Fix it Fix it
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ThisOneBlock
06/22/2014 11:37 pm
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AllisonTheGamer2IRL stuff: Ok so I had this big crush on someone and I was for sure he had a crush on me as well, but then he started to stop talking to me. He was flirting with a girl and he asked her out. Im so heart broken. What should I do? -Crona

well this is easy - find someone else to get the guy jealous and if the girl breaks up with guy then go for the chance because he will be depressed
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Nom900
06/22/2014 11:42 pm
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If you are asking for advice about this, then I'm assuming you are quite young, so just let it go. There are more, and better people in the world that you will find when you are older and more experienced in knowing what you want out of a partner. It won't feel good for awhile, but just let it go. Be around friends and do things that make you happy to take your mind off of it. And no, don't "pie" or just "eat" or what not. Depression eating is really unhealthy and won't help you in the future for getting significant others...
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AllisonTheGamer2
06/22/2014 11:49 pm
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Im not young, this is just my first time I actually loved someone and I dont know what to do I also posted Pie because I always post that random poll answer to see if others really care or not, Lol
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EnchantedM
06/23/2014 12:07 am
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eh eating for me works, the thing is i have limits and diets so i know when to stop but this is true its definitly not healthy
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ThisOneBlock
06/22/2014 11:44 pm
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Nom900If you are asking for advice about this, then I'm assuming you are quite young, so just let it go. There are more, and better people in the world that you will find when you are older and more experienced in knowing what you want out of a partner. It won't feel good for awhile, but just let it go. Be around friends and do things that make you happy to take your mind off of it. And no, don't "pie" or just "eat" or what not. Depression eating is really unhealthy and won't help you in the future for getting significant others...


LET IT GO LET IT GO CANT HOLD IT BACK ANYMORE!
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Dohvakiin
06/22/2014 11:47 pm
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First things first.

Don't let them in, don't let them see, Be the good girl you always have to be
Conceal, don't feel, don't let them know.

Then let it go.
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some1epic123
06/22/2014 11:49 pm
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Big vouch for Dohvakiin's method.
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Henry_Jekyll
06/22/2014 11:50 pm
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The answer is quite obvious. Grab a few tubs of icecream, start up a Harry Potter marathon, and cry your eyes out.
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ObbyRaidz
06/22/2014 11:52 pm
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Explains it all!
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Flaming Apple
06/22/2014 11:57 pm
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You're such a rude and in-sensitive person! Why on earth would you watch a Harry Potter marathon? You have to watch anime! Ugh! Like have you ever watched Attack on Titan? Gore ALWAYS helps sadness.
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AllisonTheGamer2
06/23/2014 12:05 am
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Got my ice cream and watching Soul eater -Crona
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EnchantedM
06/23/2014 12:09 am
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omg yes i can barely breath
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AllisonTheGamer2
06/23/2014 12:01 am
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To the freezer! -Crona
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Fanjawi
06/22/2014 11:56 pm
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I dunno how old you are, but if you're under like 22, I say just forget about love and focus on your studies/work.

Love ends up as marriage, and It takes lots of money to take care of a family, so really, until you hit 20 or something more, you should only focus on your education.

Believe me. If you don't work hard on your education now, you are gonna struggle in the future.
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Fellanchicken
06/23/2014 8:45 am
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TRUTH
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EnchantedM
06/23/2014 12:05 am
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5 simple steps

1. Go on Netflix (Don't have it? get it)

2. Grab cookies, icecream, and put brownies in the oven (This can be substituted with pie)

3. Turn something on that you like (If anime skip to number 5 then go to 4)

4. Forget about the douche who went for someone else and go check on your brownies

5. Watch 2 whole seasons of 5 different animes

Boom

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AllisonTheGamer2
06/23/2014 12:10 am
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I find this very funny -Crona
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EnchantedM
06/23/2014 12:27 am
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that was my goal
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experttacobear
06/23/2014 12:10 am
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Move on. Sorry... This is the best advice. Don't get to tangled with that stuff. You have greater priorities.
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irritatedCat
06/23/2014 12:17 am
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Well, first off, you probably shouldn't have assumed he had a crush on you, so you can't blame him. Secondly, you shouldn't be asking this with Minecraft. I mean, this is how I responded to one person:

Him: What does it mean when a girl smiles and kisses you?

Me: It means she is a robot and she is trying to implant a chip in your brain.

Ask your parents or your friends or something.
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Forest Fawn
06/23/2014 12:21 am
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Meh. I'm sorry I've never realy liked any one but I think two twins like me But just play it cool, act like you never liked them. STOP TALKING TO THEM. DONT EVEN LOOK AT THEM COLD SHOULDER FOR DA WIN


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Forest Fawn
06/23/2014 12:23 am
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I can be very.. Agressive..
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Find Them Creepers
06/23/2014 12:24 am
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Excercise. Not sure how it really works but when you excercise (after anyway) you get super happy fun time chemicals that make you happier or something. As you can tell I'm quite the biologist.
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Mishkia
06/23/2014 12:26 am
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What really helps me is:

-Have tea
-Do some yoga with a parent or dog
-Stare at a peice of cheese and think of five ways cheese needs to be implanted into Minecraft
-Spin in CIRCLES

-Punch something like Hermione did to Malfoy.
-I really don't know any others.
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COOPERx223x
06/23/2014 12:26 am
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Most of the replies have already stated this, but your best option is to just let it go. I don't know how old you are, but given the circumstances I'm gonna assume you're young, early teens at most. In that case, here's a word of advice:

If you think you love a guy and you're totally gonna grow up together and be the couple that stays together forever and all that fun stuff, the sad reality is that it's almost 99% not gonna happen. You're going to have your heart broken. Multiple times, most likely, and probably in worse ways than this. I'm not just talking out of my butt here, either. I'm an 18 y/o guy, and I've had some pretty bad relationships. But the thing is, after I had those bad break ups or whatever else, I moved on.

I know this all sounds pretty negative, but believe me, even the worst relationships are valuable learning experiences. As young as you probably are, I can guarantee that you don't know exactly what you want in a relationship. Dating people is how you find out what that stuff is. And once you do know, and you find the person you're meant to be with, the two of you will know.

So, in short, just let it go. Move on, find someone else. This stuff isn't an exact science, so if something ends up worse off than you expected, just roll with it.
And yes, I can already see the Frozen-themed replies.
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AllisonTheGamer2
06/23/2014 12:37 am
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Im not at all offended by your opinion, in fact, My hopes raised up from your comment. Everyone thinks im young here, but Im nott. And Im ok with that.
Again, just the first time I fell in love with someone and Im not sure what to do now.
Frozen is everywhere
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SnowyKaida
06/23/2014 12:29 am
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AllisonTheGamer2
06/23/2014 12:41 am
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My gosh lol
You just gave me an answer without using words.
Its a world record -Crona
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Flaming Apple
06/23/2014 1:03 am
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Looks like Emma Stone. I guess this is what she feels like after dieing in The Amazing Spider-Man 2.
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AllisonTheGamer2
06/23/2014 1:04 am
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She does look like her
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KeefuhGraphics
06/23/2014 12:49 am
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well obviously you didnty make your move your fault LOL.
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AllisonTheGamer2
06/23/2014 1:02 am
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O_o Way to make me feel sad again. -Crona
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EnchantedM
06/23/2014 10:36 am
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wow rude
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PizzaPenguin_
06/23/2014 1:01 am
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Sorry, I just had to.
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AllisonTheGamer2
06/23/2014 1:04 am
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xD Its ok, I find is very funny -Crona
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COOPERx223x
06/23/2014 1:09 am
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Flaming Apple
SnowyKaida


Looks like Emma Stone. I guess this is what she feels like after
Click to reveal
dieing
in The Amazing Spider-Man 2.


It is her. And for the love of god, man, spoilers!

AllisonTheGamer2Im not at all offended by your opinion, in fact, My hopes raised up from your comment. Everyone thinks im young here, but Im nott. And Im ok with that.
Again, just the first time I fell in love with someone and Im not sure what to do now.
Frozen is everywhere


I'm glad I could cheer you up, then! If you don't mind me asking, how old are you? Or at least what grade level?

Love is a very big and powerful word, and in my opinion should never be used lightly.
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Apprentice
06/23/2014 1:12 am
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Grieve and let him go. Find another guy who is loving and caring.
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rotarydial
06/23/2014 1:24 am
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Sit and think for a moment: What could he actually do for you if you were together? Why did you like him? Did he do something that seemed attractive and if so, what was it? How would he treat you if you were a couple? In the meantime I'd recommend staying strong, just move on. There are plenty more guys out there, and I bet lots of them would be perfect for you<3 If you meet someone again but you're too scared to ask them out, don't wait for them to ask you. You could get a friend to ask for you?
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Ash
06/23/2014 1:35 am
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just keep swimming
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NetworkPCE
06/23/2014 5:51 am
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Well i am not to experienced with these kind of stuff, but my GF asked me out.

I would just suggest you wait until he breaks up with the girl, probably won't last that long, most relationships where you just are together for the heck of it don't last long.

Take your chance then and ask him out
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Morneite
06/23/2014 6:19 am
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Koslaw99
jdf2Hope you feel better!


Koslaw99If GiveAHug was up right now *cough cough jared finish migrating into MySQL* I'd give you a hug

Meh...

Fix it Fix it Fix it

Fit it Felix!
i'm sorry...

anyways it's ok, i'm sure one day you'll meet someone who truly wants to be with you. even if they have brain damage.
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Malaionus
06/23/2014 8:38 am
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Do you like chocolate?
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