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Lost contact with Long distance girlfriend, please help.

Aeternalis_'s Avatar Aeternalis_10/14/13 5:39 pm
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This is probably in the wrong section, sorry. (Could not find one that fit better.)

This may be a bit long, but I really need help....

Well, I was talking to people on omegle, trolling them and such, I was quite bored. I eventually started talking to a girl from Ireland. We talked for several hours, and we really hit it off well. We talked for at least six hours for a couple days , learned about each other and, well, we really, really like each other. We were going to talk on skype, and we agreed that we were going to try to have a long distance relationship. We kept talking, and it was more or less official at this pointA little too soon, sure, but we really liked each other. Well, it's been god knows how long and I haven't heard from her, and I'm worried it was just some stupid joke. I really, really like her and I want to be able to talk to her, but she never contacted me, and never gave me her phone or anything, so I don't know what to do.

If you live in ireland and are willing to help, please message me. I would just move on, assuming it was a joke by now but she's all I think about.... I just really need help
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Lapuddle
10/15/2013 12:37 pm
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wow you choose to hunt down a girl in a planetminecraft. ok heres my advise try to remeber her username or her irl name and if you do chat it on faccebook or in google. If you cant remember her name then wtf? like you talked to her for like 6 hours and you dont know her name. ya so google her name it might come up.
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Aeternalis_
10/15/2013 12:40 pm
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I know her name, but, very conveniently, she has no last name (Possible but extremely rare). At this point I'm pretty sure it's a joke anyway. I'm just gonna feed the troll, to be 100% sure... it'll make the strangest thing ever but regardless.
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Jaxtrm_
10/15/2013 12:49 am
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Moral:
Long-distance relationships never work.
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Aeternalis_
10/15/2013 12:29 pm
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I had one that worked for several months ..... then her parents found out and flipped sh*t and we haven't spoken since.
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Pownage
10/15/2013 12:42 am
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OP must keep us updated.

*Munches popcorn eagerly
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JakeIsPro
10/15/2013 12:33 pm
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Charlizard
10/15/2013 12:42 pm
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omg gus reaction gif


Locked due to OP arguing with people and a flame war coming in from every side.
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Aeternalis_
10/15/2013 12:34 am
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Well, I was able to find and talk to 'her' somehow.... I really am starting to think it's a joke... I'll just play along and see what happens...
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John Buck
10/14/2013 7:56 pm
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I bet it was Boxxy, "shez trollin'"
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John Buck
10/14/2013 7:55 pm
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I bet it was Boxxy, "shez trollin'"
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Colonellooo
10/14/2013 7:51 pm
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Good luck man
I wish I could help.
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fuckdom
10/14/2013 7:47 pm
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Lel
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TevRIKKK
10/14/2013 7:32 pm
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Saying that her phone was apparently broken is a bit funny. This is the internet sir and why are you asking a fan site full of nerds like us love questions. You're dealing with a troll sir. ~~~~~~~ This is the internet
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Jayne98
10/14/2013 7:22 pm
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This sounds like a job for Catfish the tv show!!
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LolzCookie
10/14/2013 7:12 pm
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This is pretty annoying.. If you are saying that you lost her skype contact, you should be able to go to the recent tab and find a conversation you have ever had with her. Or, you could just shut up and realize that long distance relationships are a big pain in the arse.
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lme999
10/14/2013 7:09 pm
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You have got to be joking. Someone from my school? No. I've been in an LDR a few years back and it was so much better than even speaking to anyone in my school. Honestly, I hate too many people from where I live to even consider that. I have friends from other countries who are 4 quadrillion times better people than the people here. End of story. Yes, it was a stupid idea.[/quote]


Then do something else, I'm just pointing out that online relationships is a very bad choice.
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Karrfis
10/14/2013 7:08 pm
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Doughty
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Silvania StudiosSo many emo kids in this post...

Guys, news-flash - saying "everyone IRL hates me" is a great way to alienate those friends you do have but don't want to admit you have them because you want the attention.




but at the moment i dont have any friends since i moved to college i lost contact with ll my old friends and i dont like talking to people i dont know


That doesn't mean everyone hates you. Also, from personally experience, it's great to make friends in your college classes. There's nothing like going to a class and having a friendly face to sit by. Plus, it also helps when you need help in a class and have a trusting friend to go to. Stepping out of your comfort zone really helps out sometimes, and in your case, I'd encourage it.



i have trouble talking to an approching starngers i am very socialy awkward so i have trouble having long conversations face to face with people. i just sit in my corner and live my life
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Doughty
10/14/2013 7:04 pm
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karrthus1
Silvania StudiosSo many emo kids in this post...

Guys, news-flash - saying "everyone IRL hates me" is a great way to alienate those friends you do have but don't want to admit you have them because you want the attention.




but at the moment i dont have any friends since i moved to college i lost contact with ll my old friends and i dont like talking to people i dont know


That doesn't mean everyone hates you. Also, from personally experience, it's great to make friends in your college classes. There's nothing like going to a class and having a friendly face to sit by. Plus, it also helps when you need help in a class and have a trusting friend to go to. Stepping out of your comfort zone really helps out sometimes, and in your case, I'd encourage it.
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CleverUserName01
10/14/2013 6:59 pm
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May I ask where you met her
EDIT: didn't see that at first but do you know what the term "catfish" means?
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Aeternalis_
10/14/2013 7:07 pm
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Yes I know what it means
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Karrfis
10/14/2013 6:58 pm
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Silvania StudiosSo many emo kids in this post...

Guys, news-flash - saying "everyone IRL hates me" is a great way to alienate those friends you do have but don't want to admit you have them because you want the attention.




but at the moment i dont have any friends since i moved to college i lost contact with ll my old friends and i dont like talking to people i dont know
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Fureniku
10/14/2013 6:52 pm
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So many emo kids in this post...

Guys, news-flash - saying "everyone IRL hates me" is a great way to alienate those friends you do have but don't want to admit you have them because you want the attention.

Now, as for the OP - you were going around "trolling people" you say? "she" (Assuming it was actually a she) was probably doing the same. You got a taste of your own medicine, man up and take it. Who knows, maybe your "trolling" upset their friend and they were seeking you out for revenge.

As for the sub-topic going on here, Capitalizing Every Damned Word Is Really Annoying. When I read it it's like every word is a new sentence, so it IS hard to read. Frankly when I see posts like that (for servers, mods etc) I just skip 'em. I even ignore comments on my own mods like that...


Not trying to be a douche, just pointing out the facts. You can't expect to go around any site "trolling" people without getting bitten back.
(FYI, if you claim you're trolling people, you're probably not. The good trolls take a silent pride, they never brag about it )
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Aeternalis_
10/14/2013 6:57 pm
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I troll people for literally 5 minutes and get probably as deep into a relationship and you do the pope. I don't get someone to believe something. She/he trolled me for several days/hours
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Kunaty
10/14/2013 6:51 pm
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MaimingRobotThings for you to know.
1. Long Distance WILL NEVER Work
2. If you lost contact with her she is gone and is with another man/woman.
3. I'm sorry.
4. PS was she hot? XD



I beg to differ, it works just fine! D:
If anything, it helps in building trust.
Also, why are you so negative? There IS a small chance that her crap WAS broken.
Had an uncle meet his dream girl online 6 years ago, they're married with 3 kids and going strong.
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PokeLander
10/14/2013 6:50 pm
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Oh, I wish I could help, but I cant. I am half irish but I still cant help. sorry Wish you all the best,
~PokeLander
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MaimingRobot
10/14/2013 6:46 pm
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Things for you to know.
1. Long Distance WILL NEVER Work
2. If you lost contact with her she is gone and is with another man/woman.
3. I'm sorry.
4. PS was she hot? XD
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froghog
10/14/2013 6:41 pm
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im so sorry about this, but i have too




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TevRIKKK
10/14/2013 7:36 pm
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LMFAO
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Lord Fawful
10/14/2013 6:40 pm
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I know that feel, but unfortunaly there's probably nothing we can do. Sorry.
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Maddie
10/14/2013 6:39 pm
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I seriously doubt anyone here can really do anything for you. Prepare yourself to move on. I doubt she'll be back.

To be honest, from my perspective, she probably played nice and tried to let you down "easy" by just not talking to you anymore and saying her stuff is broken.

Give up and move on.
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Kunaty
10/14/2013 6:36 pm
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Long Relationships do work bro. My girlfriend and I met on some MMORPG or something. We were good friends for a year and I finally just asked if she wanted to date me and would try to make it work.
She said yes, and I've skyped her everyday since, for at least 6 some hours a day, called her, texted her, sent letters back and fourth, and we're planning our futures together. It will be 5 years next april.

Keep hoping, maybe it WAS a joke, just find someone you can talk to and who is willing to make it work.
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Flawless-Gaming
10/14/2013 6:33 pm
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I've meet this girl past summer, and we are pretty close friends (but just friends) and to be honest, if I would lose contact with her out of the blue, I would do anything to find her again, currently I already know her full name, address and phone number etc (which makes it damn easy), but even if I didn't I wouldn't of given up that easily, and always remembered her.

About the long distance relationship aspect, I don't really have any experience with that so not going to give any feedback on that.

Good luck man

Echo
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Keegybeeg
10/14/2013 6:30 pm
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I Think You Are On The Wrong Website For Help.
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Aeternalis_
10/14/2013 6:31 pm
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I think you should learn how to type properly prior to posting something.
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Keegybeeg
10/14/2013 6:35 pm
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I Don't Get It.
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Karrfis
10/14/2013 6:38 pm
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dude planet minecraft is a health clinic a relationship advice center we have phycologists to help you sort out your life...its a mini planet of awesome its not just minecraft
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Aeternalis_
10/14/2013 6:37 pm
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Capping every word in a sentence is horribly disgusting and makes stuff hard to read.
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ASF
10/14/2013 6:40 pm
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I Don't See What You Are Talking About.
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Kunaty
10/14/2013 6:38 pm
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Hey now, I like doing that sometimes too. I'm a neat freak and frankly, it isn't too hard to read.
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Keegybeeg
10/14/2013 6:45 pm
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Thank You! Somebody Gets It.
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Karrfis
10/14/2013 6:29 pm
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speaking from experience long distance relationships never work i s in one for a few months with a girl but it fell apart because we all live to far away from each other

i only had a long distance relationship because nobody likes me IRL but everyone likes me on the internet....despite i act the same online as i do irl..*shrugs* idk

but they dont work..just walk on and some when you will find someone who likes you
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LBUlises1
10/15/2013 1:02 am
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I 100% agree with this.
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Aeternalis_
10/14/2013 6:33 pm
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I've tried too many people irl to count. All of them hate me now. I'm more or less in the same place as you. I hate my life and I an only talk to people without getting into a fight on the internet. people are so much more polite.

Also, it's not like we did this on the 1t day. We did this for several days.... up to like 8 hours each...
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Karrfis
10/14/2013 6:37 pm
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my online relationship was 8 months

dont worry i'll be your bro friend
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lme999
10/14/2013 6:26 pm
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It's obviously a joke, or her computer broke. But honestly no offence and sorry but long distance relationships with someone you've never met? And with someone you've only met a little while ago on the internet? Go find someone from your school.. not some random person that might be a guy for all you know that you met on the internet.
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Aeternalis_
10/14/2013 6:31 pm
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You have got to be joking. Someone from my school? No. I've been in an LDR a few years back and it was so much better than even speaking to anyone in my school. Honestly, I hate too many people from where I live to even consider that. I have friends from other countries who are 4 quadrillion times better people than the people here. End of story. Yes, it was a stupid idea.
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Moderock
10/14/2013 6:20 pm
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Dude, I wish you the best, but I'm not sure anyone can really do something here.
Sorry to say.
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brawley12
10/14/2013 6:16 pm
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I can see where you're coming from perspective wise. I have talked to other girls from other countries and formed a strong bond. I would worry if they just all of a sudden stopped talking to me.
But statistically there are 4.589 million people in ireland as of around 2010. That is still a lot of people.
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Aeternalis_
10/14/2013 6:20 pm
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Well damn it must be crowded.

Then I might as well give up. I'm a little pissed, It probably was just a joke. Shows the shit I do when I'm tired. Whatever. If it turns out not to be a joke, good otherwise, w/e.
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