friends may bypass
n - nope
y - yes
m maybe
f - friends
contest - n
request - n
friends - n
raffels - n
collab - n
trades - n
tourney - n
pm - f
if I’m slow to responding to things 1. I’m busy, 2. I’m thinking about what I should say, or 3. I’m just a tad bit overwhelmed
extra (mostly badges n stuff)
