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Introduction
Hello PMC, this is my first blog and a very thoughtful blog. Why would my first blog be about friendship you might ask, it is because recently in real life, including inside of the video gaming world. I have seen a lack of friendship. Examples including such as people pretending to be a loyal and active player to a server, but turning against the owner disrupting the environment.
The Problem
But in real life, people will use you. For example, I will use a situation from my life. There was a woman that was a friend of my mother's and she didn't have a car and lots of stuff and was going to move to a place, I think Dubai. Well for one year, my mother drove her places, helped her sell her furniture and EVERYTHING. But a couple of days before she was leaving for Dubai, she called my mother and called her very mean stuff, if you get the point. But she was USING her, for a way to get her way into Dubai because it wouldn't have been possible without my mother.
These things that I am speaking of could be occuring right here right where you are reading...
The problem is that you don't even know it's happening. It could be happening to you this instant, maybe to a family member, a friend you might never know. Some girl that you like out of the blue might start calling you a best friend, or a bestie. But it might end up in making girls jealous, which would equal you being used as a tool for girls to being jealous.
The Solution
Well there are many solutions to stopping this, such as thinking about stuff such as the topic I spoke of in the problem part of my blog in the second paragraph. How a girl might use you to make girls jealous.
That can be solved in a split second. Telling them, I don't know you, I don't even hang out with YOU! How in the world could I have ever been your best friend.
Basically telling the truth to them will make them shut their flaps and back-off. That's happened to me once and I told the truth to them and they stopped. Eventually she told her secret to her "friend" that she liked me which I never knew, but then I asked her after that secret came out... Why did you call me best friend when I didn't know you? She said... Well, I didn't want the other girls to like you, so I would have a better chance with you. I obviously understood what she meant, I knew girls liked me. I forgived her and she did become my best friend after a while and is now currently my girlfriend.
Sometimes if you can solve the problem, a good outcome will come or a bad outcome will come.
My story was a good outcome. It is because I approached the problem ready to defend myself and calmly backed her down.
Thank you for reading my first blog, I hope this could get the word out of this situation and help people to resolve problems with friends.
Don't forget to SUBSCRIBE for more DIAMOND and/or FAVOURITE if you liked this blog.
Hello PMC, this is my first blog and a very thoughtful blog. Why would my first blog be about friendship you might ask, it is because recently in real life, including inside of the video gaming world. I have seen a lack of friendship. Examples including such as people pretending to be a loyal and active player to a server, but turning against the owner disrupting the environment.
The Problem
But in real life, people will use you. For example, I will use a situation from my life. There was a woman that was a friend of my mother's and she didn't have a car and lots of stuff and was going to move to a place, I think Dubai. Well for one year, my mother drove her places, helped her sell her furniture and EVERYTHING. But a couple of days before she was leaving for Dubai, she called my mother and called her very mean stuff, if you get the point. But she was USING her, for a way to get her way into Dubai because it wouldn't have been possible without my mother.
These things that I am speaking of could be occuring right here right where you are reading...
The problem is that you don't even know it's happening. It could be happening to you this instant, maybe to a family member, a friend you might never know. Some girl that you like out of the blue might start calling you a best friend, or a bestie. But it might end up in making girls jealous, which would equal you being used as a tool for girls to being jealous.
The Solution
Well there are many solutions to stopping this, such as thinking about stuff such as the topic I spoke of in the problem part of my blog in the second paragraph. How a girl might use you to make girls jealous.
That can be solved in a split second. Telling them, I don't know you, I don't even hang out with YOU! How in the world could I have ever been your best friend.
Basically telling the truth to them will make them shut their flaps and back-off. That's happened to me once and I told the truth to them and they stopped. Eventually she told her secret to her "friend" that she liked me which I never knew, but then I asked her after that secret came out... Why did you call me best friend when I didn't know you? She said... Well, I didn't want the other girls to like you, so I would have a better chance with you. I obviously understood what she meant, I knew girls liked me. I forgived her and she did become my best friend after a while and is now currently my girlfriend.
Sometimes if you can solve the problem, a good outcome will come or a bad outcome will come.
My story was a good outcome. It is because I approached the problem ready to defend myself and calmly backed her down.
Thank you for reading my first blog, I hope this could get the word out of this situation and help people to resolve problems with friends.
Don't forget to SUBSCRIBE for more DIAMOND and/or FAVOURITE if you liked this blog.
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