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Edit: I put on my earbuds and listen to the WhiteNoise app on my iPod. Works awesome! Now me and my brother and sisters get along.
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Try to ignore them, your reaction is what keeps encouraging them to annoy you.
Wear earplugs.
My sympathies.
Another Solution is to wear Ear Plugs BLOCKS SOUND! But, First tell them if they want to talk to you during a meal tell them to Tap your shoulder 3 times or Clap or whatever.
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I'm an only child, so I don't really know all that well about dealing with brothers and sisters. However, my dad is in the military, and has deployed twice. Last deployment, my mom went sorta crazy, and got really stressed out. Being just her and I at home, this got annoying quick, as she would get on my back about everything, and start arguments with me about stupid stuff, like not working enough in the week, and then telling me I work too much and don't spend time with her. To stop this, I literally grabbed a camera, and just started filming her, and her arguments. The fact that the camera was there made her rethink some things, which helped a lot. If your brothers and sisters still don't stop, then just record them messing with you and show it to your parents. Although, I have access to cameras and stuff do to being in a video production class at school, so I do not know if you can get a camera in your situation.
get evidence of your brother and BAM
I understand My younger brother and I fight and he started it but, I end up in trouble but, I would care if he broke a bone I have my brothers back no matter what, even if it means dying because you can't ignore your brother forever (Ok maybe you can) cause they know you, and well family look out for each other I sometimes feel like I am not loved either but, while they still are caring for me I am OK, this is coming from some one, 2 years older than you.
Were dark sunglasses so u can't c them wen u eat and u dint get botherd by it
Misophonia is the hatred of sound not seeing people chewing, specifically here the hatred of the sound of chewing (I hate it too, but my yougner brother loves to chew with his mouth open.
My solution, you could temporarily wear noise-reducing headphones until you sort the problem out with measures mentioned above.
My solution, you could temporarily wear noise-reducing headphones until you sort the problem out with measures mentioned above.
Dear Cybug, I know how you feel. Although I do not have misophonia, I am certain my brother has it(even though he has not been diagnosed). He has all the symptoms of misophonia. His ways of dealing with it were similar to yours, leaving dinner, going into his room. The way that I believe my brother was able to cope with his problems was that he was able to gain friends that understood him and were able to help him with his problem. He also had hobbies that kept him busy, such as playing guitar, watching movies, playing video games. I understand that although this disease is not severe, it is nearly impossible to deal with it if you've been diagnosed. I am truly sorry for you.
My suggestions to you are that you try to make friends who understand you, and respect you. I know you have tried many times, but try talking to whichever parent understands you better, your mom or your dad. I know from your comments that you do not see eye to eye with them, but try connecting with them one last time. If that does not work, try to talk to one of your neighbors that you KNOW AND TRUST. Also, you obviously like minecraft, so that is hobby you and everyone else here shares, but in addition to that, find some other things that you enjoy, reading for example.
My brother was able to deal his problems and although he may still have them, started to be able to ignore them in his mid teens. I hope you are able to find a way through your struggles, good luck, and hope this helps!
My suggestions to you are that you try to make friends who understand you, and respect you. I know you have tried many times, but try talking to whichever parent understands you better, your mom or your dad. I know from your comments that you do not see eye to eye with them, but try connecting with them one last time. If that does not work, try to talk to one of your neighbors that you KNOW AND TRUST. Also, you obviously like minecraft, so that is hobby you and everyone else here shares, but in addition to that, find some other things that you enjoy, reading for example.
My brother was able to deal his problems and although he may still have them, started to be able to ignore them in his mid teens. I hope you are able to find a way through your struggles, good luck, and hope this helps!
I think you're taking this the wrong way.
Right now you're being bullied, hated upon, etc. Well, believe me or not, you'll end up famous. (or close). Trust me, many people will suddenly like you. WHO CARES if your family hates you. It's not the end of the world. And possibly your parents will also regret hating you later on.
Right now you're being bullied, hated upon, etc. Well, believe me or not, you'll end up famous. (or close). Trust me, many people will suddenly like you. WHO CARES if your family hates you. It's not the end of the world. And possibly your parents will also regret hating you later on.
Seriously get a therapist. You've obviously got some problems and if you feel that you can't even talk to your parents, you need to fix that shit right away. Your best short-term option is to simply go to your parents and be 100% serious, telling them everything you told us. If you're comfortable telling strangers on the Internet, you should be able to talk to your mother and father. Don't let them shrug it off; make them listen. I'm confident they will.
Hire a Mercenary to do away with you brother?
He's 10 years old -.-
or if that doesnt work, say to ur parents,: why dont you love me? and im pretty sure they will say they do an ask why u said it and u will say because They havent been paying attention to what happened and im pretty sure there will be a talk after that sometime
PLEASE DO NOT COMMIT SUICIDE THOUGH :/ IK U FEEL SAD BUT, U DONT WANT TO GO WHERE YOU WILL GO IF U DO, U GO DOWN, NOT UP.
I hope it works out soon, i wish you luck! make sure you do what i told you!
PLEASE DO NOT COMMIT SUICIDE THOUGH :/ IK U FEEL SAD BUT, U DONT WANT TO GO WHERE YOU WILL GO IF U DO, U GO DOWN, NOT UP.
I hope it works out soon, i wish you luck! make sure you do what i told you!
just do it back to him to show him how annoying it is.
And by the way, DO NOT commit suicide, you will regret it, staying alive is better
I don't think he'll get the chance
what you do is tell your mom that you wanna have a talk with her and your brother and straighten things out. If i were you, i would do that. I have a sibling that used to do the same thing, just talk about it, and i dont think ur parents hate u, i had the same problem when i was ur age.
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it just looks like you got started on the ever so exciting, riveting, fun, and depressing teenagerhood a little early.
Blame the hormone chemicals they implant into Supermarket meats XD
Sucicide. It;s your first option! And You're last trust me.
Are you kidding me? That's not even funny. Grow up kid.
Your family definitely doesn't hate you. Your siblings are probably just jealous of you. (I don't know much about your life outside of this, so I don't know if you have any other extraordinary talents; You probably do. You're level 39 on here (Same level as the amazing Snowylips; Well, you were until I refreshed) and have 43 subscribers. You definitely have some sort of talent, and aren't worthless.) Just don't give up, you can be stronger than them. All of you will grow out of it, and they'll look back on their actions shamefully.
it just looks like you got started on the ever so exciting, riveting, fun, and depressing teenagerhood a little early.
it just looks like you got started on the ever so exciting, riveting, fun, and depressing teenagerhood a little early.
Simply ignore them
They will learn how much of noobs they are when they grow up
I have ADHD
i use to get dangerously angry
i use to have HUGE bullying Problems when i was in year 3,4
I managed to throw a metal framed chair at them BUT that was the worst thing that could be done, wana know why? i was put down 1,2 grades
but now meh i'm like the quietest person in town now xD
i grew out of my ADHD when i reached 10
I'm Turning 18 next year
And Everything's working out fine
We'll anyway I hope things work out for you
They will learn how much of noobs they are when they grow up
I have ADHD
i use to get dangerously angry
i use to have HUGE bullying Problems when i was in year 3,4
I managed to throw a metal framed chair at them BUT that was the worst thing that could be done, wana know why? i was put down 1,2 grades
but now meh i'm like the quietest person in town now xD
i grew out of my ADHD when i reached 10
I'm Turning 18 next year
And Everything's working out fine
We'll anyway I hope things work out for you
I had pretty much the same problem. I threw these HORRIBLE tantrums for a LONG time (like it ended last year and I'm 13 right now). But I grew out of it. Also, maybe a counselor can help. I had a problem with sleeping because I got this CRAZY jump scare when I was 9 and I JUST last year stopped using a night light (I'm really sensitive to stuff like that). Though now I play games 10 times more scary just because of that counselor.
Nice in simple. Sit alone or far away from your siblings, preferably next to someone you trust so you are not lonely, and try to find something to do to show that you are not dumb or a jerk, like help your parents. (or something, I don't know...)And try to find something to do to release your anger without them taking any effect.
PS: If your brother is 11 and he says that, he doesn't know what he is talking about. I seriously thought your brother was like, 7 when reading this. Then I looked back and it says he is 11.
PS: If your brother is 11 and he says that, he doesn't know what he is talking about. I seriously thought your brother was like, 7 when reading this. Then I looked back and it says he is 11.
Heeey hey OP. It's ok. Life can get like this sometimes, and it's not bad to feel down. The big thing, is that you have to pick yourself back up. Explain to your parents about what is going on, and if it doesn't do anything there's always an ear here for you.
99% of us have been in that down part, we know what it's like. It's ok.
99% of us have been in that down part, we know what it's like. It's ok.
I cried like 20 times today.
I think that is my record
I think that is my record
well my little bro eats like a horse on Perseus so just get used to it took me 2 years but it is TOTALLY WORTH IT
And no family hates you even if they punish you or get mad at you they still love you
And no family hates you even if they punish you or get mad at you they still love you
I have had many talks with my parents. I just go into my room and cry if my brother starts yelling at me or accusing me.
Enforce your feelings. Find a time when your siblings are disturbing you and have a serious talk with your parents about your problem.
Eat in your room~
Go to a psychiatrist. It's not something that you need to 'get over', it's something they need to tolerate. Try eating somewhere else like your bedroom and let your mother/family know that this is a serious condition and you need to have someone talk to her about it that knows more about it then I do. Personally, I don't know of the phobia, but phobias are serious and not something to be played around with.
Tell your parents when your brother isnt home/around
Tell the honest truth, EVERYTHING no matter how embarrassing it is.
Whether you are or not, act sincere
Look her in the eyes, let your mom know that you are serious
Tell the honest truth, EVERYTHING no matter how embarrassing it is.
Whether you are or not, act sincere
Look her in the eyes, let your mom know that you are serious
Seems like your parents are failing from your point of view. Probably this is all exaggerated nonsense though.
Yeah, I am just a stupid idiot who doesn't mean anything. I am a worthless piece of crap and nothing I make is good. I am a stupid pointless piece of crap.
This is possibly one of the saddest things I've ever read. Speaking from experience, we all feel that way at some point in our lives. It sucks, but it's true. Sometimes when we're young, problems seem so much bigger than they are, and we start to feel like we don't matter at all. I've been there, honestly.
The thing is though, you're only 10 years old. You've got a whole life ahead of you, and you can do whatever you want with it. Don't ever feel like you're not worth anything, because we're all worth something. Sometimes all it takes is being told you matter by someone else for us to truly see our worth. Everyone here sees your worth. You just have to try to talk to your parents and see if you can come to a solution, without your siblings being able to interrupt.
The thing is though, you're only 10 years old. You've got a whole life ahead of you, and you can do whatever you want with it. Don't ever feel like you're not worth anything, because we're all worth something. Sometimes all it takes is being told you matter by someone else for us to truly see our worth. Everyone here sees your worth. You just have to try to talk to your parents and see if you can come to a solution, without your siblings being able to interrupt.
Let me tell you something.
There are millions of galaxies, millions of stars, millions of planets and astroids and specs of dust floating in space and this planet produced a miracle that is human life. Every person that is ever born here is brilliant in thier own way, regardless of race, intelligence, or societal standing.
Don't ever let anyone make you feel that you are worth nothing...
Because they are wrong.
There are millions of galaxies, millions of stars, millions of planets and astroids and specs of dust floating in space and this planet produced a miracle that is human life. Every person that is ever born here is brilliant in thier own way, regardless of race, intelligence, or societal standing.
Don't ever let anyone make you feel that you are worth nothing...
Because they are wrong.
Words of wisdom truly
Snowylipsa) Do not touch your family in any harmful matter. I don't care if anyone on here recommended "punching" your brother, don't.
Now I'm not condoning him to go and beat up his brother by any means, but siblings fight regularly its a part of growing up and sometimes in extreme situations a quick jab to the leg or arm CAN help in the way that it shows standing up for ones self.
a) Do not touch your family in any harmful matter. I don't care if anyone on here recommended "punching" your brother, don't.
b) Your siblings (eg not parents) are just doing it to tease you. I know it's hard, but they don't necessarily hate you, and for a while you may just have to learn to ignore it. Your parents could be a little oblivious to the situation. Have you told them, just yourself and them, what is going on when you're eating with the family? If you explain to them clearly what is happening, I can tell you now they'll start to see what's going on. Perhaps you can tell your mum when she's cooking dinner, when your brother and sisters aren't there, that your siblings are teasing you. You just have to explain it to her.
c) Take EVERYTHING you see on here with a grain of salt (don't trust it entirely). That goes for every single comment in this thread. If you see some advice you think could work, think about it and what would happen.
b) Your siblings (eg not parents) are just doing it to tease you. I know it's hard, but they don't necessarily hate you, and for a while you may just have to learn to ignore it. Your parents could be a little oblivious to the situation. Have you told them, just yourself and them, what is going on when you're eating with the family? If you explain to them clearly what is happening, I can tell you now they'll start to see what's going on. Perhaps you can tell your mum when she's cooking dinner, when your brother and sisters aren't there, that your siblings are teasing you. You just have to explain it to her.
c) Take EVERYTHING you see on here with a grain of salt (don't trust it entirely). That goes for every single comment in this thread. If you see some advice you think could work, think about it and what would happen.
Cuts and bruises heal, Life lessons last forever.
So true.
Then he wont be able to reproduce.
A kid being as dumb as this guys brother really doesn't deserve that I don't think. Meaning he shouldn't be able to reproduce.
Quick question ,no pedo but how old are you?
I am 13 and very matured... Why?
Because saying someone shouldn't be able to reproduce when he's just a kid and is only teasing his brother because they're kids, isn't a very mature thing.
Now that I think more about it, I made a mistake when I said that. It would be very rude.
No matter what your family says or does to you, you should ALWAYS love them. They taken care of you this far and never gotten rid of you. Snowylips is right, they are just teasing.
Sorry for my very immature comment. I do apologize.
No matter what your family says or does to you, you should ALWAYS love them. They taken care of you this far and never gotten rid of you. Snowylips is right, they are just teasing.
Sorry for my very immature comment. I do apologize.
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