u made a mistake let me point these out to you
1. No one in this community is gonna give u a server (they cost money)
solution; go on a creative server that has protection on it. there is lots of beginner to epic builders on these kind of servers.
eg server: 173.208.177.74
2. am offended you said he there is alot of girl builders who can build better then boys maybe you should consider girls as well as boys.