Ill rebut one last time but after this itll just be a waste of time,
You are going to be leaving and paying for a server or home hosting? if so, great, just be ready to pay out of pocket for a good amount of time if you need to.
Big servers get a general consensus. taking note of every individuals requests is a waste of time because in the end you want to appeal to the majority. People have different tastes and adjusting to accommodate everyone is very difficult especially when it'll only appeal to a select group of people. If most people enjoyed playing no grief survival and 2 people said they love grief-survival, are you gonna add it to accommodate just those people? of course not, because you'll lose everyone else. If you were able to host both game modes, then go ahead but you can only have so many game modes especially if they are being stretched over such a small server.
It really should be common sense knowing how to pick and choose staff based on loyalty to the server and attitude towards players.
you aren't getting much feedback here so this will just act as a bump for you