Published Aug 21st, 2012, 8/21/12 8:20 pm
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Minecraft Relationships,
Something almost all of us have seen. Most have done. Marriages, little dates watching the sunset. Yeah it is romantic but what if the person you're watching it with isn't who they say they are. You might not have any proof of them being who they really are. I'm not talking about people who do have the proof and skype with their sweet heart. Then there's the people who take it too far, far enough to lie to people about who they are. Making fictional characters who they think are the perfect people. Making lie after lie after lie. So, what happens if some one catches one of your mistakes and starts unraveling who you really are. What happens then? You go to another server and start over? I'm here to talk about that and to hear what you all think of this.
Then theres the people who go low enough to cheat on their online sweety. Like dating one guy on this server, and dating another guy on that server. Some people go and cheat on some one on the server they both play on. Seriously, who does that? I met some one who had enough nerve to date 3 guys on different servers, then flirt with another guy while one of the guys was right there. They call others s****s? Minecraft dating has become a serious problem for some. Say, if you thought you were in love with some one who lives on the other side of the world but they break up with you for some reason, you feel heart broken. Some people will try to go suicidal because they are "forever alone" now. That they will never find another love. Get over it. Seriously, it's a game. There are other people. REAL WORLD PEOPLE. People you can REALLY TOUCH. Excuse my use of the caps lock but thinking your life is over because some one left you. You didn't really know these people unless you knew them in real life before. Other than that you don't really love them. Unless they go full on proof and truth for you, you don't really love them. You like them.
Something almost all of us have seen. Most have done. Marriages, little dates watching the sunset. Yeah it is romantic but what if the person you're watching it with isn't who they say they are. You might not have any proof of them being who they really are. I'm not talking about people who do have the proof and skype with their sweet heart. Then there's the people who take it too far, far enough to lie to people about who they are. Making fictional characters who they think are the perfect people. Making lie after lie after lie. So, what happens if some one catches one of your mistakes and starts unraveling who you really are. What happens then? You go to another server and start over? I'm here to talk about that and to hear what you all think of this.
Now I will admit that I have dated over minecraft at least 3 times. Only because they were close to my area and I had proof of who they were. The thing I worry about most when people date over Minecraft, is when they think they can start cybering. It's just weird. I know there are people out there who are 10+ that think it's fine. Nothing can happen. Then there's the people who are in like their 20's and above. Cybering, with all these kids around and sometimes WITH these kids. It's all fun and games just until it goes across the line. I'm not going to be getting into those details because it may be a bit much for some. People doing this, it's just disturbing. I have played on some servers who put "No Cybering" as one of their rules. I don't have the ip's to them for how many times I have had to re-install my minecraft. When they say it isn't allowed don't just take it to another server. Just don't do it at all. Who cares if it's what the all the "COOL" kids do. I know this is an old one but if all the "COOL" kids went to go jump off a cliff, would you do it too just be "COOL"?
Then theres the people who go low enough to cheat on their online sweety. Like dating one guy on this server, and dating another guy on that server. Some people go and cheat on some one on the server they both play on. Seriously, who does that? I met some one who had enough nerve to date 3 guys on different servers, then flirt with another guy while one of the guys was right there. They call others s****s? Minecraft dating has become a serious problem for some. Say, if you thought you were in love with some one who lives on the other side of the world but they break up with you for some reason, you feel heart broken. Some people will try to go suicidal because they are "forever alone" now. That they will never find another love. Get over it. Seriously, it's a game. There are other people. REAL WORLD PEOPLE. People you can REALLY TOUCH. Excuse my use of the caps lock but thinking your life is over because some one left you. You didn't really know these people unless you knew them in real life before. Other than that you don't really love them. Unless they go full on proof and truth for you, you don't really love them. You like them.
Now I used to be fine with people dating on minecraft. Having marriages. Going on dates. I was fine with it, until they start getting it on. Acting like they gave birth to one of the players. Role play is fun I admit, but getting it on, messaging each other like you're sexting. That's a bit much. I run a server with the developer since the owner doesn't come on. We had a couple who decided they would get it on saying the details out loud. Making dramatic affects such as "Blah Blah: *Moans*". Like Wtf? We told them to do it through message and keep it to themselves. Next day. I logged on because i kept getting complaints on skype that they were starting it again. Only it was worse. I had to go and talk to them alone about what was happening. The conversation. "Oh one just slipped and we thought it would be fine till you were on" Like there were no others on? It kept getting worse. From hugging to kissing and so on. It got to a point of giving bj's. Disgusting. I don't care how old they were. We had a little kid join. Around 7-10. Asked what they were doing. I can't explain that. I'm not a health teacher or this kid's parent. What was I supposed to do? I had to end it. I told them if it happened once more I would make sure that ever mcban server they played on would know, what they do exactly as it happens. They split up. I feel bad about doing that but I had, had enough of it. I have to put up a rule that states NO CYBERING.
Get what I'm saying? What I want you to do is give me a feed back on your opinion and see wether you think Minecraft dating is fine and sometimes it gets a little out of hand or The people need to get off their butts and find a real girl/boy. Your opinion. State what you think and don't mind what others put against you.
Sorry for any mistakes I have made on this.
Get what I'm saying? What I want you to do is give me a feed back on your opinion and see wether you think Minecraft dating is fine and sometimes it gets a little out of hand or The people need to get off their butts and find a real girl/boy. Your opinion. State what you think and don't mind what others put against you.
Sorry for any mistakes I have made on this.
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lol mc dating is bad >.>
my friend Skyhero12322 on my fav server dated this girl and they she said she hated him (probably cuz he rp dates, wich isn't technicly dating) and like I'm thinking dude make it a personyou actualy know irl... and then I started to like people on that server DEY BRAINWASHED MEH
lol dont date in mc xD
But I really only dated once.
There was this other one I dated srsly we got married like 4 times and pretended to kiss and shit.
BUT HELL NAW I'LL NEVER DATE AGAIN!