why servers why?

there once was a amazing server called minecraft.fitzycraft.com (still exists) and one day i was on that server and i was in my house and the co-owner came to the house and said "this is my friends house" and i said "i live wiv them"which i did and he asked the name and the person who i named was correct and he disconnected me from the server! and then i reported the server to a minecraft server website and told him and he disconnected me from the server and a message came up and said "go report some other server with your fucking gay friends!" that didnt make me happy.so i am calling out to everyone on planetminecraft.com to give advice onservers,and even some of your experiences that you have had and the co-owner who done this is halo71 and i hope he is reading this if so, F**K YOU!!!!!!!