Crash report

Hey guys I have a server and I cannot login! >:(
But my friend can
I have updated to latest java and still couldn't join and also gave my game up to 7GB of ram (I have 12gb ram) but I guess that was useless so I went down to at least 2gb ram of usage.
I can join any other minecraft server but if I try to join mine my minecraft crashes
heres my crash report
---- Minecraft Crash Report ----
// On the bright side, I bought you a teddy bear!

Time: 8/5/15 7:43 PM
Description: Ticking screen

java.lang.IndexOutOfBoundsException
at java.nio.Buffer.checkIndex(Buffer.java:540)
at java.nio.DirectIntBufferU.get(DirectIntBufferU.java:253)
at bma.a(SourceFile:271)
at bma.a(SourceFile:220)
at bao.a(SourceFile:1694)
at bao.a(SourceFile:1652)
at bjb.a(SourceFile:125)
at hd.a(SourceFile:70)
at hd.a(SourceFile:13)
at ej.a(SourceFile:174)
at bcx.e(SourceFile:78)
at bao.p(SourceFile:1343)
at bao.ak(SourceFile:774)
at bao.f(SourceFile:728)
at net.minecraft.client.main.Main.main(SourceFile:148)


A detailed walkthrough of the error, its code path and all known details is as follows:
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-- Head --
Stacktrace:
at java.nio.Buffer.checkIndex(Buffer.java:540)
at java.nio.DirectIntBufferU.get(DirectIntBufferU.java:253)
at bma.a(SourceFile:271)
at bma.a(SourceFile:220)
at bao.a(SourceFile:1694)
at bao.a(SourceFile:1652)
at bjb.a(SourceFile:125)
at hd.a(SourceFile:70)
at hd.a(SourceFile:13)
at ej.a(SourceFile:174)
at bcx.e(SourceFile:78)

-- Affected screen --
Details:
Screen name: bcx

-- Affected level --
Details:
Level name: MpServer
All players: 0 total; []
Chunk stats: MultiplayerChunkCache: 0, 0
Level seed: 0
Level generator: ID 00 - default, ver 1. Features enabled: false
Level generator options:
Level spawn location: World: (8,64,8), Chunk: (at 8,4,8 in 0,0; contains blocks 0,0,0 to 15,255,15), Region: (0,0; contains chunks 0,0 to 31,31, blocks 0,0,0 to 511,255,511)
Level time: 0 game time, 0 day time
Level dimension: 0
Level storage version: 0x00000 - Unknown?
Level weather: Rain time: 0 (now: false), thunder time: 0 (now: false)
Level game mode: Game mode: creative (ID 1). Hardcore: false. Cheats: false
Forced entities: 0 total; []
Retry entities: 0 total; []
Server brand: ~~ERROR~~ NullPointerException: null
Server type: Non-integrated multiplayer server
Stacktrace:
at bjf.a(SourceFile:289)
at bao.b(SourceFile:1972)
at bao.f(SourceFile:737)
at net.minecraft.client.main.Main.main(SourceFile:148)

-- System Details --
Details:
Minecraft Version: 1.7.10
Operating System: Windows 8.1 (amd64) version 6.3
Java Version: 1.8.0_25, Oracle Corporation
Java VM Version: Java HotSpot(TM) 64-Bit Server VM (mixed mode), Oracle Corporation
Memory: 1785576048 bytes (1702 MB) / 1932787712 bytes (1843 MB) up to 1932787712 bytes (1843 MB)
JVM Flags: 6 total; -XX:HeapDumpPath=MojangTricksIntelDriversForPerformance_javaw.exe_minecraft.exe.heapdump -Xmx2G -XX:+UseConcMarkSweepGC -XX:+CMSIncrementalMode -XX:-UseAdaptiveSizePolicy -Xmn2048M
AABB Pool Size: 0 (0 bytes; 0 MB) allocated, 0 (0 bytes; 0 MB) used
IntCache: cache: 0, tcache: 0, allocated: 0, tallocated: 0
Launched Version: 1.7.10
LWJGL: 2.9.1
OpenGL: GeForce GTX 280/PCIe/SSE2 GL version 3.3.0, NVIDIA Corporation
GL Caps: Using GL 1.3 multitexturing.
Using framebuffer objects because OpenGL 3.0 is supported and separate blending is supported.
Anisotropic filtering is supported and maximum anisotropy is 16.
Shaders are available because OpenGL 2.1 is supported.

Is Modded: Probably not. Jar signature remains and client brand is untouched.
Type: Client (map_client.txt)
Resource Packs: []
Current Language: English (US)
Profiler Position: N/A (disabled)
Vec3 Pool Size: 0 (0 bytes; 0 MB) allocated, 0 (0 bytes; 0 MB) used
Anisotropic Filtering: Off (1)



NOW here is the report on my server log

[19:43] [Server thread/INFO]: [VanishNoPacket] Vohqa disappeared.
[19:43] [Server thread/INFO]: [Ultrabans] Logged Vohqa connecting from ip:###.#.#.#
[19:43] [Server thread/INFO]: Vohqa(Thats my ip so I hashtagged it)[/###.#.#.#:#####] logged in with entity id 821 at ([world_PVPWorld] 564.7871579293223, 63.0, 979.5943352722157)
[19:43] [Server thread/INFO]: Vohqa lost connection: Internal Exception: java.io.IOException: An existing connection was forcibly closed by the remote host

note: and no, ultrabans doesnt disconnect me. I even tried joining without the plugin on the server