Down with storm guard i need help

amagin this you log in to a friendly server or at least that is what you thought. but after making a town with a member you protect it without allowing him to buld. then you cool him off but it isnt over then you are accused of greifing and cheating and called bad and hurtfull names. that is my perdicament so if you like to keep your dignty stay off of mine.oriacal.net. now i ask for help what should i do. i very sad