Since your server is homehosted it is most likely running on Windows. You cannot share your console or files. The only way is to setup a FTP Connection which is not avalible for Windows at all, will work only on Linux such as Debian, CentOS etc... All hosting websites such as McProHosting or any other use Linux for your Minecraft server. So simple answer to your question is NO. Just get a cheap host for a normal price of max $3 per 1GB of ram. Best regards!

first, you need to set up port forwarding, then you need to set up FTP and make sure the console your using is a web-based 1,
honestly though if you need to ask how to do it then you probably don't have any of the first bit sorted or know how to do said things