I need a plugin/mod creator! + I have some Q's too.

I'm making a BF3 server using Flans plane and Modern weapon + WW2 mod and I have a couple questions about this mod and I will also ask if you know any plugins/mods that would help me. Okay so I'm planning on having waypoints set like Ru Deployment for example, any mods or plugins available for that? Thanks. Anyways, If I install Flans plane and Modern weapon + WW2 mod on my server, what would happen? Like would they get disconnected,what mods would you need to log in? Also I'm wanting to make kits (Assault, Engineer, Support, Recon (basic BF3 classes) But I want it to have the guns in the kit from the mod, how would that be possible, would I have to install a custom mod just for that? I wouldn't like that because then they have to download a silly mod just for the server. Also a plugin for Rush and Conquest from BF3 would help, this is how I would like it:
/bf tickets - Shows how many tickets RU and US have. (conquest)
/bf obj - Shows objectives and if one is taken by the enemy, it will look like this with red colored '<C>'
Also chat only accessible to your team.
/bf squad - Lists available squads you can join.
Ability to spawn on Squad mates.
For rush mode, make everything like this, but when an income gets destroyed it won't be on /bf obj.
A plugin that when a game is over, the map restores (please try to make it an add-on to the bf plugin!) Well, that's all I can think of now, the questions and requests. Thanks! Please respond anyone!