I'm new, help?

So I'm new and i really wanna join a server but i've never been on one before and I'm scared to join one because i feel awkward cos I'm a nooooob. yeah. i wouldn't grief or anything, would someone help me find a server? I'd love to do an adventure thingy (kinda like bluexephos) with a few people. and yes i am a girl.


thanks so much