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Girl Problem
This is avery akward topic to talk about for me but whenever I get around girls I go red and act a bit different (not the good different). Please help! Thanks.
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Ignore them and it will make you look cool. No joke.
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"Deal with it!"
*MLG airhorn montage*
*MLG airhorn montage*
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I have heard of many people feeling the way. I don't think iit os particularly unusual.
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I have heard of many people feeling the way. I don't think iit os particularly unusual.
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Just don't think about it. I mean, we're all people. Dudes and dudettes are not of a different species. Girls don't exist just to be romanced by us guys. Just think: How do you act around guys? Then do it.
Then again, if you blush and act weird around all people, like me, then you've got a bigger problem. And I dunno how to help you.
Then again, if you blush and act weird around all people, like me, then you've got a bigger problem. And I dunno how to help you.
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Put the phone down,
Turn the thing off.
Smile,
Talk
Seriously though, we're all human, we all put our trousers on one leg at a time, (unless you have no legs... then its awkwards). By the way this is written I guess talking to the opposite sex is still a fairly new thing but remember, they're probably feeling the same!
It passes, the more you socialise in person, and not through tech, the more confident you become, and the easier it gets... and then you get like the likes of me...who has no fear in public situtions
Turn the thing off.
Smile,
Talk
Seriously though, we're all human, we all put our trousers on one leg at a time, (unless you have no legs... then its awkwards). By the way this is written I guess talking to the opposite sex is still a fairly new thing but remember, they're probably feeling the same!
It passes, the more you socialise in person, and not through tech, the more confident you become, and the easier it gets... and then you get like the likes of me...who has no fear in public situtions
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just be normal because it works
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Whatever be yourself x3
its important
just have a chat with them.
as like simplestic chat.
like how has been your day?
its important
just have a chat with them.
as like simplestic chat.
like how has been your day?
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Same problem here bros ;_;
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Hey it's ok to be shy around girls! I'm a girl and very often I see guys shy to Come up and talk to us girls and when they do they turn red!you know we girls think its cute well I do :d don't worry the most important thing is be yourself and start a convo!
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Really, just be yourself. There's nothing better than pure honesty -- it'll help you meet friends who are more like you, rather than faking your personality to be around people you regret in the future.
Other than that, all I can really say is we're all human. Remember that. Everyone is similar in one way or another. Both genders can have the same humor, same interests, same favorite foods, games, and so on. The only difference between genders being... well, you know.
Hope this helps, and good luck with everything!
Other than that, all I can really say is we're all human. Remember that. Everyone is similar in one way or another. Both genders can have the same humor, same interests, same favorite foods, games, and so on. The only difference between genders being... well, you know.
Hope this helps, and good luck with everything!
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Just concur your fears and don't even think about anything and just say "Hi". You could make some new friends! Hope my advice helps
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I have this problem with basically everything, no matter what it is xD
Basically, a lie detector would never work on me since it would look like I'm constantly lying even though I'm telling the truth xD
Basically, a lie detector would never work on me since it would look like I'm constantly lying even though I'm telling the truth xD
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You could do like me
Become attracted to the other gender (Your own gender), helps in a way of you not being attracted to girls anymore... However you will probably (like me) be attracted by boys instead :/
So basicly my best tip: not to be attarcted when around girls (or boys in my opinion) is to try as hard as you can, to smile, and LOOK FORWARD. Don't look at them, just smile at concentrate at something in front of you.
Helps you gain some self respect too
And in case you talk to a girl. Try to keep eye contact and notice what eye color she have. This helps you to both remember the person, and if she ever ask's you're well prepared!
Anyway, good luck with it, and Stay You!
Become attracted to the other gender (Your own gender), helps in a way of you not being attracted to girls anymore... However you will probably (like me) be attracted by boys instead :/
So basicly my best tip: not to be attarcted when around girls (or boys in my opinion) is to try as hard as you can, to smile, and LOOK FORWARD. Don't look at them, just smile at concentrate at something in front of you.
Helps you gain some self respect too
And in case you talk to a girl. Try to keep eye contact and notice what eye color she have. This helps you to both remember the person, and if she ever ask's you're well prepared!
Anyway, good luck with it, and Stay You!
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True definition of self respect right up here ^
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Try to make yourself get into a comfortable mood. If you have that positive and confident feeling you won't even know your talking to girls. And if it fails on you right in the action, have a backup plan to lean on, like a schoolbook, or even better you phone. That way you can like relax a little from them, even tho you ar eright next to them in a conversation. But remember never to be arrogant towards them or ignor them, nobody likes that.
(Feels like this turned into an advice of how to get girls instead of how to just talk to them. If you want I can teach you how to stay in a relationship with them for about two years, like I have lol)
(Feels like this turned into an advice of how to get girls instead of how to just talk to them. If you want I can teach you how to stay in a relationship with them for about two years, like I have lol)
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Thanks guys.
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As said by Mark. Be yourself. Talk to girls regularly as much as you can to practice making conversation within the gender.
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Hey it doesn't matter! I'm guessing you're young... I felt like that when i was younger don't worry, it's completely normal! Just go for it
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just be your self.
don't change
don't change
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Same problem here im almost 20 and still having those issues XD Can be so open and so humorous wehn am around boys/friends but wehn thers girls around my brain goes in "trying to be normal" mode, and it's really annoying cuz am not acting natural in anyway.
But its maybe the brains way to protect us from large shopping bills and stupid in-law famaly.
But its maybe the brains way to protect us from large shopping bills and stupid in-law famaly.
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practice makes perfect my friend ^.^