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Draco darkbladeChronDraco darkblade
Well my problem with that is, every girl i ever like in the real world i cant bring nerve to even talk to her, or she either has a boy friend, or has other people who would beat me up if i said things.
ding ding ding. found it.
You're lacking confidence, kiddo.
As someone who is locked in an eternal struggle for self-confidence, I know how hard it is to talk to girls. But you know what helps? Throwing the idea of liking a girl out the window, and just being a friend. Because if there's one thing I know that girls (girls worth your time, anyway) want, it's not some shallow guy that only talks to them when they want them, it's a guy that works for a long time to be their friend and then makes a move. A guy that puts in the time and effort. Also, if you can force yourself to see a girl as a friend, it becomes a LOT (can't emphasize that enough) easier to talk to them.
I guess the moral of the story is, whether it's on or offline, you have to make sure you're friends first, and then decide if it's worth moving on. From my experience, unless you have a physical connection with the girl and her feelings are mutual, it's best to stay friends.
well.........schiesse. That has some potential merit to it, but what the heck would you even do if you tried to make a move only to find out that they had been seeing someone and it was serious, and that out of pity for unreciprocated feelings to you she lied and denied that she was seeing someone? You would still have her as a friend, but I can only guess would be that it would feel like being castrated live on ESPN.
Well i dont know if i move to fast i could scare her away, if i move to slow i sont be there intime...
ChronDraco darkblade
Well my problem with that is, every girl i ever like in the real world i cant bring nerve to even talk to her, or she either has a boy friend, or has other people who would beat me up if i said things.
ding ding ding. found it.
You're lacking confidence, kiddo.
As someone who is locked in an eternal struggle for self-confidence, I know how hard it is to talk to girls. But you know what helps? Throwing the idea of liking a girl out the window, and just being a friend. Because if there's one thing I know that girls (girls worth your time, anyway) want, it's not some shallow guy that only talks to them when they want them, it's a guy that works for a long time to be their friend and then makes a move. A guy that puts in the time and effort. Also, if you can force yourself to see a girl as a friend, it becomes a LOT (can't emphasize that enough) easier to talk to them.
I guess the moral of the story is, whether it's on or offline, you have to make sure you're friends first, and then decide if it's worth moving on. From my experience, unless you have a physical connection with the girl and her feelings are mutual, it's best to stay friends.
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