Honestly, I'm not the person to go and advertise on forum posts like these, but it seems like you both are having a hard time finding a proper server. My server focuses around this exact thing which is user experience and accessibility and it seems like you'd be at home on my server. If you want, please log on and ask for "Bobcycle" in game, let's have a chat! :) The IP is play.minevict.us
