play.dmzcraft.com -- it's pretty darn quiet but we're working hard on a new spawn in a fresh new world that has barely any lag. We've been a server for a little more than three years, and we're only on our third map -- we often have people working on mega-builds so we try to encourage that by not wiping the map too often.
We don't advertise or do vote-to-win. We do occasionally ask for donations but on our website there is a spreadsheet of all the donations and costs, you can look and see that mostly it's just me paying for it, there are no bought ranks or privileges.
It's been extra-quiet lately, but the regulars are good people, very helpful and friendly. And when people are on, it inspires the regulars to come and play, so the more people join, the more people will join, ya know?
When you first log in you'll be in the old world, hopefully in the next few hours I'll have it set up to default to the new world but if not, I'll put a warp there.
We have some excellent plugins and a bunch of command block / scoreboard-based features like an XP bank and a "lootery" where you buy keys (for emeralds, not IRL money) and use them to open the crate to get a prize. All command blocks, pretty cool. Our resident command block genius will be working his magic during the upcoming school break, so we'll have more cool stuff then!