Perhaps this is also off-topic, but I’d like to share my opinion. This is a fairly common problem. I'm from Russia. On Russian servers, almost all players are schoolchildren; they play for their own sake, to satisfy their own needs. They seem to be mean, selfish, uncreative, not smart, and so on. They write with mistakes, are prone to silly trends, and don’t like to talk about life. It’s hard to find interesting and long‑lasting players. Maybe Minecraft isn’t the place to look for acquaintances. Maybe you should look for people somewhere else, and then bring them to Minecraft :) . In Russia, Minecraft is losing its popularity :(