While I seek the same goal as you, OP, I honestly wouldn't go looking for help on this forums. I mean, sometimes you can get a decent server from here and stuff like that, but mainly it's just people advertising their own server. Not saying that's a bad thing, if it's relevant, but most people would advertise their vanilla or faction server to someone who's asking for RP. Sadly, I have no server to offer you, but I wish you luck on your search.