This.. sounds suspicious.. specially from a guy named "CoastGuardCraft".. just sounds.. like one of those jock kind of guys and trying to find an excuse to meet some women.
Tip, women and men can either both do the best, or worst job. It depends on the person, not the gender. I am currently employed as a Game Reviewer and Moderator at a website I will not disclose due to Terms of Service, but I moderate over 3,000,000 registered users. I am also partnered at twitch.tv and I actually moderate my chat and stream with a fair atmosphere.
It all depends on the person, how thick their skin is, and how professional they can be when a situation arises. Experience is also a plus.
Also, relying on women to pay for a server YOU want to run? What kind of man are you?