Yeah, the whole Minecraft community is pretty elitist at times, with how long they have had it, how many hours they have, what they have built/done, and even calling a completely unrelated game complete garbage just because it became more popular for a bit. The only thing it does is make the community more toxic.
I have great respect for both Java and Bedrock: Java introduced me to this game and this community and is my preferred version; Bedrock is the one I've used to play with my friends allowing us to make memories which not possible on Java and is the version that introduced me to Redstone, my favorite mechanic, that I continue to love on Java.