I am transgendered and bi. To me, personality is what attracts me. I do not care what the person looks like. Did you know that homophobia is inherently derived from culture, and instinct? In some countries, it is perfectly acceptable to be gay, and nobody gives it a second thought. Where does instinct come in? Well, men are generally competitive and geared towards superiority. They subconsciously view other men in a negative aspect, due to instinct driving them to be "better" than other men. This is why women are generally much more open and accepting of homosexuality.