especially with how time consuming it can be, it just alienates you more. luckily, no one is outwardly rude about the fact i play, in fact they are all nice about it, but none of them really care. its fine to me, but meeting people with the same hobbies always feels so rewarding. you got it right with big servers. anyway, thank you for the advice! i might actually start doing that, have a great day.
