Actually play minecraft?!

I've been searching for a server where people actually play minecraft! By this I mean SURVIVAL gameplay with NO factions or guilds or any of that silly stuff. I want to play in a friendly server with a max. slot of maybe 12 people? I want the peple to be friendly and not ******* griefers! Is there any server like this anymore? I'm tired of huge servers with villages and guilds.. ahh!! I want a vanilla server with other 7 friendly people is that so hard?! T_T
If someone has a server like this ( not so old, I want to start from the beginning) or wants to create a server like this please contact me, I want to take part! I play almost every day, I'm an active player. I enjoy building with other people pleaseeeeeee!!