Also you do make a good point about smashing gender stereotypes, which i totally stand by. However without gender they'll be no gender stereotypes to go by :)))
gender is just a label, something created by humans to somehow understand and grasp life and our surroundings :))))))))))))
"why do some people look like this and why do some people look like that?" its all based off of groups and something to label ourselves and other people. i guess imo it makes us seem bigger than what we actually are and makes us seem more knowledgeable to ourselves.