I know in this culture singleness is in many people's minds is almost like a disease. Like if you don't have a boyfriend or girlfriend you begin to think 'Is there something wrong with me?'

I want to tell you no. No, there is nothing wrong with you. Honestly. Culture has put such a huge emphasis on dating. Like you have to date, if you haven't ever dated before your so weird. But, let me tell you the truth. You don't have to date to be important or to have a purpose. So many people fall into thinking that if no one likes them they aren't important and have no meaning.

If your thinking that STOP. You have a meaning and a purpose. You do. I don't just think so, just the fact that your here and alive on this earth and reading this proves that. You have a purpose, you might not know it right now, but you do.

But, you can't derive who you are or your worth out of if someone likes you or if your dating someone.

I know I'm kind of falling off topic, but honestly I really really want what is best for you.

I think singleness is almost a blessing in disguise. You can do so many things right now that someday when you meet that person you won't be able to do as easily. Now is your time to try new things, find out more of who you are, make new friends, create new habits. So that when you meet that person you'll be entirely ready and prepared. I know this is kind of a big topic.

But, wait. You have no idea how much waiting helps with your character. Than in the end it will be entirely worth it. Trust me. :)

Edit: I'm not saying you shouldn't get married or when you get married you loose your freedom. What I'm saying is far from that. I believe very strongly that dating isn’t just this thing were "Oh there's a cute guy." I wanna date him. Or vice versa. I believe dating is a period in a deep friendship between two people who are in hopes to get married. Not just something you do for fun and when someone 'better' comes around you drop them or when they're no longer 'fun' This post is an encouragement for those who are single and haven't found that person who they're meant to be with. To tell you to use your single years for good so when you meet them you both can reach people and goals together. :)

/srs post

the other day i noticed my good friend Trib [@/BlueBoyBuilds] was five subscribers away from having five hundred, which is an incredible milestone that i wanted him to reach. so naturally i made a wallpost calling people to subscribe. it would only take the kindness of five people, and since most people hand out subs like theyre nothing i figured it wouldnt take too long.

at first it looked promising. ppl kept sharing, trib noticed, and by two days he had two more subs, which was great!

i checked in the third day and someone unsubscribed. that was disappointing, but it happens all the time- usually just one person deciding to be a jerk- and its often just fixed by someone else.

i checked back in today to discover he had gone from four hundred and ninety seven to four hundred and eighty eight.

THIS IS NOT OKAY.

i dont care who you are. i dont care if you resub. i dont care if you personally attack me and/or trib [​though i will report you]. i dont care if you think you have a good reason and, if thats the case, you could have sucked it up for at least until he had five hundred subs.

what i do care about is that you realize this was an incredibly douchey and jerk move and you should probably apologize, even if its anonymously in his secret share box [​if he still has it]. i doubt either of us care if you resub.

you know who you are. this was not acceptable.

/end /srs post

wow guys so i had a worse day than i expected