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LOVE - MINECRAFT WAS NOT CREATED FOR THIS (Pop Reel!)

Hello guys and welcome to my first blog. My name is Phancy and I would like to discuss about the people who are affectionate to others when they don't know a single thing about each other in real life. Like love in minecraft. Now in minecraft servers (especially marriage servers) , you might see a love chat. Now think how they could feel when they don't like each other anymore. It's a serious thing. And it's definitely not a funny thing to laugh at.

INTRODUCTION:

I have been online lately and people have been dating in Minecraft online without even knowing each other in real life. Now I don't really get the point of that because this can be a problem. It can get really disturbing for people who are not capable of affection in the server public. It can be a big thing because they might just love each other at first, but when they get to know more about your personal life, they could dislike a few things like age, hobbies, likes, dislikes, etc. If you do have a minecraft girlfriend that you don't even know of, be really aware as it can be a giant problem that can be never really solved at all.

Now what can we seriously do about this problem? Really, we can't do anything to change this world. No one can tell us what to do and no one can ever boss us around. So that means they won't probably listen to this blog, but you should as I'm giving you advice. This blog is suppose to help you so you can have a
better life.

You should be able to follow my lead so the Minecraft community can be raised and have a better place! Not some pity romance show of Mineraftia! Even if it says " Minecraft , you can do anything in the world! " , this is just inappropriate for a good game like this! Don't let this game down people.

AN EXAMPLE:

Here is an example of a love chat I saw recently. Well I'm not going to say their real usernames but let's just call the girl "Sarah" and the boy "Nick" .

Nick: your skin looks so cute ;)
Sarah: awwww, thx :)
Nick: Your welcome
Sarah: :P
Nick: I have something deep inside i want to tell u :3
Sarah: i love you 2 ;3
Nick: Awwww. thx u.
Nick: lets learn more about each other so we can be more then friends
Sarah: Okay whats your age/
Sarah: *age?
Nick: 10yrs ;3
Sarah: You young freak! you too young for me.
Nick: What? :(
Sarah: We cannot be a gf or bf or anything. im 15 so get out of here

Nick: but im lonely
Sarah: GET OUT OF MY SIGHT



FEELINGS:

As you just saw in the chat, the boy and the girl had emotions in their minds. If you knew the emotions in the chat you just saw, they were love, anger and sadness. When they have found out more about their personal lives, they are unlike each other. Sarah was angry because she found out in a surprise that Nick was young for her. In Sarah's thoughts (well at least I think) , she thought Nick was also 15 so when she found out, she was furious (and probably sad) that Nick was 10.
In Nick's thoughts, he thought Sarah was probably 10 or 11 maybe. Nick wanted Sarah as his girlfriend but of course, they were unalike. And now they have both feelings hurt in reality. So even dating online can hurt reality itself. So you should really be careful who you are talking to because feelings can be hurt from game to reality. Treat people how you want to be treated.

In game, don't really do this. Think about your surroundings. Will you keep in the habit of doing this? Or you'll just keep going on what you're doing and maybe hurt your life. It's your choice. I don't choose the decisions for you , it's you.

ANOTHER EXAMPLE:

After a few more days, I have found another love chat between 2 boys and 1 girl. The 2 boys were fighting over for the girl. We shall call the 2 boys Caleb and Richard. And the girl's name is Nicole. Now I want you to try identify how they feel. Even maybe the girl's feelings.

Caleb: You looking hot right now
Nicole: :3
(Richard butts in the conversation)
Richard: Nicole, you looking SMOKING hot. Wanna go to my house and talk about it?
Nicole: heheh ;)
Caleb: you just ruined our convo! u better leav now or truble will go for u!
Richard: what are you? a 2 yr old person who doesn't know how to spell?
Nicole: stop it...
Caleb: Richard, im not 2 yrs old! its called shortening! *****
Richard: it's not called shortening ******! its called abbreviating! get the **** out of here!
Phancy13 left the game.

Sorry, but I had to leave for dinner. We were gonna have steak :3
Anyway, you get the point. When I came back on, they were still arguing. An admin kicked the boys and they didn't come back on surprisingly. You just can't believe how they can fight over a girl they don't even know in reality! How stupid can it get?
It made me really confused, angry and uncomfortable. Even if you were there, you might have felt the same way as me.

I hope you understand this blog and enjoyed it. If you did enjoy or have any problems with it, you can send me a private message or leave it down the comment section below.
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07/13/2014 11:34 am
Level 13 : Journeyman Artist
DahBlueBerry_Kitteh
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I totally agree! Once I was on a server and I was making a RP with someone, after like an hour or so, he was like, "Hey, (I'm not going to reveil my real name so let's just say Casey) Casey, can I ask you something?" At first, I was kind of worried that he was going to ask me to leave his RP, even though I wasn't doing anything wrong. So I was all like, "Uhhh yea sure...." As he was typing I rembered that on some peoples ''plots' ( We were on a Creative Map) and they were making dating centers, RPs that involve 'Love', and lots of other weird stuff like that. Finnaly he said, " Would you like to be my MC Gf?" I waited like ten seconds intell I responded. I ended up saying something like, "Sorry, you seem really nice....But minecraft is ment for you to be creative and not to only pay attenion to someone you don't enen know. Hope no feelings were hurt!" After a day or so I went back on the server. I telaported back to (I'm not going to day his real name, so let's just call him Charlles.) Charlles. Standing next to him was some new girl that I hadn't seen before. Charlles said, "Hey Casey, this is my Gf, (Not the real name) Susan! Susan this is Casey, my friend!" We both said hello and greeted our selves. It honestly felt awakward standing next to my 'friend' that just went to find a new girl. About an hour later when there was like only ten people on the server, one off the donaters was like, "Ughh I hate how everyone is like... dating" A few other people decited to join the conversation. One of the pther donaters said, " Yea this is MC not Chritian Mingle!" We all end up deciting to just try to ignor the "Annoying Couples That don't Even know Each Other" (Sorry for the overly long comment, I had some serious feels about this...)
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07/13/2014 11:35 am
Level 13 : Journeyman Artist
DahBlueBerry_Kitteh
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Wow, much longer than I expeccted. XD
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07/27/2013 11:08 pm
Level 10 : Journeyman Engineer
THANKSTYRONE
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This is kind of late, but I want to express how I feel about this so I say this is the most reasonable online dating rant I have ever seen.

You used examples. You described how it can hurt you. You described how you don't know about their personal life.

Amazing!
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05/23/2013 8:43 pm
Level 1 : New Explorer
Nimbis
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I agree with this. I see it all the time! It's annoying me and like you said , they don't seem to care that people are way being to affectionate! +1
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05/24/2013 8:16 am
Level 4 : Apprentice Artist
Phancy13
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Yeah , I see this all the time too. You just gotta try ignore it and get distracted on something else like ..... Well anything!
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05/23/2013 8:31 pm
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Failure_
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Awesome! Diamond for you!
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04/30/2013 5:48 pm
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Fenntic
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Yh ive met, my current Boyfriend over a mc server at teh start we knew nothing about each other but day by day, we talked more and more, to teh point i know him better then he knows himself,
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04/30/2013 1:54 pm
Level 7 : Apprentice Mage
QuirkyKirk
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This happens all the time in ROBLOX, despite the fact that it's against the rules. The somewhat suggestive bodies they make ( though ya gota hav BUILDERS CLUB LOLOLOLO MONIES) certainly aren't helping... Though, I have gone onto a server and jokingly said "I wuv you" to ponies that are obviously also male, but they can see it's for the lulz, though I did get just a BIT carried away with it once.
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04/30/2013 1:07 pm
Level 58 : Grandmaster Grump
Azie
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A lot of people need to be aware that the person you're talking to may not be who they say they are. Also, I think this extends to real life as well in the respect that people should be a little more sensitive to the chance that someone may be offended or feel uncomfortable around others who are being overly affectionate in public.
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05/01/2013 5:09 am
Level 4 : Apprentice Artist
Phancy13
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I agree with you. You make a really good point Azie. Good job :P
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